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I was wondering how long you would wait before having sex with someone?, by that I mean with your boyfriend/girlfriend and how soon do you feel is too soon?

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Answer #1

I think you should wait until you are both ready. I used to say to myself that I would wait at least 5 months but that changed with my current boyfriend. There seemed to be that special spark and we had our first time together after about a month. The main thing is that you are both comfortable with what you want to do. Talk with him, the more open you are with each other the better your relationship. There can be a lot of guys who are idiots and are just after one thing so if I didn’t totally trust a boyfriend I would wait until I knew him really well. A boy prepared to wait until the girl is ready is a loving boy hehe :)

Answer #2

I think waiting until after marriage is best. I think it’s the sweetest thing for you both to be virgins and give yourself to one another. Lolz.

Answer #3

When you are both ready and mature enough to deal with the consequenses :-) For me I couldn’t place a spesific time limit on it.

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