How should I tell my husband that I'm pregnant?

I got married about 4 mths ago and I just found out im pregnant! I’m so happy! My husband is in Iraq and is going 2 be gone 4 about 4 mths he just left 2 weeks ago but I’m not sure if I should tell him now or wait untill he comes home 2 show him my belly? This is a very welcome pregnancy by all involed I just can’t decide how 2 tell the good news!!!

Answer #1

i would tell him when you can asap. i mean think about it, if he comes home and sees ur belly he might feel as if he missed out on it all. but if u tell him now then he can ask you hows the baby doing and u can keep him involved. and tht is a big secret to keep frum ur hsband he he. i dnt knw if i could do tht. good luk!

Answer #2

You should definetly share the good news with your husband so he can miss you more and cant wait to get home and share the experience with you!

Answer #3

You should tell him now so he dont feel missed out

Answer #4

tell him as soon as possible, if you dont he will never forgive you for not telling him right away. But how can you be happy? You are setting you child up for an unhappy, terrible life. As much as you might enjoy parenting, think about your kid, think about the embarrassment he/she will go through later on. I am 17, and my mom had me when she was 14. I couldn’t play with friends when I was younger, why? My mom couldn’t drive, so I couldn’t go anywhere. My dad was barely in my life, until now. Why? Because I left my house. My mom didn’t care about me, from what I remember of growing up, is hearing her complain about her life to my grandma. And how she didn’t get enough “her” time. I go to a wonderful school of performing arts on a full scholarship. I got there with no support, and no help. I live in my house’s basement, that has a door to the outside, so it’s like an apartment. As soon as I am able to buy or rent something on my own I will. Why? Because my family isn’t a real one, at least not one enough that I want to stay in.

Don’t do this to yourself or to your children. You will live a life of regret. But more importantly, your children will never forgive for being so selfish.

Answer #5

you should tell him best of luck : )))

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