How should I feel about this?

my boyfriend is open to me but…sometimes a little too open, like how he told me that when he was in europe for 4weeks with his family, he whacked off to me because he missed me…he’s told me he’s done it 2 other times before but other than that he really doesn’t (I take care of him :P) but is that sweet or what…? I really have no clue how to react to that we’ve been together for almost 2 years now, but he is my first boyfriend (we’re 17 going on 18). So I have no honest reaction other than “ok…” or saying “awww” because I have no clue what I should say. All I can say is I’m happy he (apparently) doesn’t whack off to porn, though I wouldn’t be all harsh down on him if he was a little into some of it

Answer #1

Two things:

  1. Someone who misses you and is aroused by you enough to pleasure themselves to the thought of you is a compliment, though admittedly an ‘’alternative’’ compliment.

  2. Yes, he watches porn. If he tells you he never watches porn, he watches a lot of porn.

Answer #2

well tell him how you realltyfeel

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