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How should I break up with my boyfriend because of lack of sex?
Should I break up with him if he’s a great guy but we just cant have sex because he cant stay hard its almost been one year since we got together yet still no sex I get really frustrated, sex is really important in a relationship! What should I do??
I think you should be honest about your frustration and encourage him to consult a doctor or psychologist. All relationships have their hardships, problems with sex can be worked on and potentially improved while others can not ever be changed (I.e.: the guy is a first class a-hole). I would avoid saying hurtful things like “I’m leaving you because you can’t get it up” and concentrate on saying things that will encourage him to get help ie.: “I’d love to make love with you but I sens there is some kind of blockade or something. It’s making me sad and frustrated and I would really love to help you get over this so we can be one hundred percent happy together. I love you and want the best for us” I also think that everybody has different needs and for some people sex is REALLY important to where for others it isn’t. You should not feel guilty about having a VERY normal need to intimacy and physical well being. Sex is, for a lot of couples, very important and central in their relationship. Of course as other said, you can not base a happy, long term relationship on just sex but it it also doesn’t mean that you continue suffering and being unhappy about it. That’s what relationships are about, learning to work things out, talking about problems and being honest when it isn’t working out.
erectile disfunction? I don’t know?
and dont listen to the people saying its not important in a relationship. sex isnt always ‘just sex’. its a mental, emotional, and physical exchange of love for one another. its about letting your guard down in your weakest state to show how much you love someone. it creates a connection that cannot be created any other way.
so either talk to him about it, or bounce. I recommend the first one tho. contact me after you talk to him and let me know how it went, because my girlfriend and I are going through the same thing, except its her, not me. In our case though I think its just from her birthcontrol.
hope I helped =)
I second that you should get him to try viagara or something.. and is he like 50 or something?.. jeez unless he’s gay he shouldnt have a constant problem with erections..
Well it’s up to you. Depends what you’re after, as billynigel says, I don’t think sex is that important in a long term relationship, it is more about being close and loving with one another. But I can understand at your age that you sex might should be something expected. As I say, it’s up to you, depends on what you value and what you feel about him. But if he’s your age, and he can’t stay hard, then there should be a reason why, whether something psychological or physiological. He should try and get it sorted.
Sex isn’t important in a relationship. It’s desired in one. Trust me when you become old and can’t have sex… what are you gonna do then.
Look, are you dating him to have sex or because he’s a great guy. In that you have to choose between sex or the great guy.
Consult him about it if it’s that important. If he’s just not turned on or if its a problem.
o and I just checked out your profile.. yea if he cant stay hard for U.. then he has a serious problem ;P
No, you should let him try, Viagra or something like that. if that doesn’t go well, then its your call.
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