How should I ask him out?

I’m 15, and I’ve been “going out” with this guy for a month, but we’ve only actually went places together three times! This relationship is moving slowly, mostly because it is my first actual, and his first actual, relationship. He’s always the one who asks me out, now, I want to ask him out to go somewhere, but I don’t want to sound clingy or desperate. And I have no idea where we would go (we’ve all ready been at a restaurant, the movies, and skating). Does anyone have any ideas how I should ask him out, and where would be a good place to go?

Answer #1

Though I don’t think you have any reason to be concerned for sounding ‘clingy or desperate’, if you want to avoid that until you’re more comfortable just keep it casual. “Hey, I’ve been wanting to go to (laser tag, bowling, rock climbing, snowboarding, etc) for a while, wanna go on (Friday, Saturday, etc)?” I find a good way to connect is find something he’s in to that he can teach you a little about; if he’s a good snowboarder (and you’re not), he can hold your hands and help you down the hill. Something fun that can be a little competitive can be good for breaking the ice as well (such as bowling or laser tag). You can tease each other about how you’re going to win/kick their butts/whatever. Makes for easy flirting ;)

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