How much sadder can this be?

Up untill now I was concerned with my issues concerning if my boyfriend would ever confess his true feelings in a language that I could understand. Now today it’s a different problem that could destroy whatever feelings he does have. My boyfriend is a 45 year old black man that has never been married and doesn’t believe in a lot of emotional stuff. (I don’t know where to start). My mother is in the nursing home…that’s another horrible story…today my boyfriend and I went to see her…he goes quite a bit so this wasn’t his first time. Today is the first time that my older brother has saw my boyfriend and he told me that I couldn’t bring him there because no one in the family wanted to see us together. My boyfriend is a very desent and proper man so being that he nodded and walked out of the room. I must say that had something jumped off my boyfriend is more than capable of taking care of himself. I wasn’t so much as shocked as I was embarressed. Idiotic people! Now my boyfriend and I are alittle distant or so it seems to me anyway. His last girlfriend of 5 years said she just woke up one morning and decided that he wasn’t the right color anymore. Her family had been riding her about it. I’m not sure if that is the real reason…I kinda’ doubt it but it’s almost like “here we go again!” My family doesn’t influence me anyway nor do they have anything to do with me. I have a mixed grandson that is 2 so I knew how they would be before I came out about my boyfriend. They don’t acknowledge my grandson either. How sadder can that be?