How to convince my parents for a nose ring?

K well I want a nose piercing simple as that. Dad says yes mum says no. When I told my mum that I wanted one she told me no then went and got one for herself. How do I convince her, or rather how would you been convinced. I know how to look after it, I have tried begging, threatening, be responsible left it but nothing works please help me! I just want a tiny stud and she is being so hypocritical!

Answer #1

when I was 14 I wanted my nose done really bad too. and my mom kept telling me know I tried asking why sometimes parents dont have the answer to that. so I just went an pierced it myself..I told her I was gonna do it if she wouldnt let me get it done professionally..she didnt believe me until she saw me the next day. but thankfully enough my parents were never to hard. once she saw it she actually thought it wasnt to bad.Now im 19 years old an im actually in the process of figuring out mother daughter tattoos. itll be her first one it will be my 3rd one. so as you see when you get older youll be able to do what you want..

as for your mom though..its kinda like.. “Do as I say and not as I do” type of thing.

so I dont really reccommend you going an piercing yourself. She might be hypocritical but its for your own good.. piercings are addictive..if you get your nose pierced next thing you know youll want to get your belly button pierced.

sorry not to much advice here…good luck though =]

Answer #2

go on and on and on and on about it everyday all the time because I really wanted to get my belly button done and my mom and dad both said no and I complained so much everyday all the time this was about 4 motnhs ago and I kepy asking each parent when they were on their own all the time so they had no one else to back them up in a argument and I left it for a about a month anddecided to play a trick on my mom I went out and bought a fake piercing put it in place and went up to my mom and said mom I really wanted it done and im sorry and she didnt believe and laughed but I said but doesnt it look really nice and it did and she said it did and then she said I can get itt done soon … but if you do the same thing to your nose make sure it really suits you and looks pretty

Answer #3

Well…

YOu are under your perents supervision it is up to them… get it when you can make your own ditions…

Begging and doing the stuff you are doing wont take you anywhere..

Answer #4

young teen your body is NOT mature enough to have piercings other then your ear lobes! same thing as if a 13 year old girl getting knocked up her body is more then likely to reject the baby. wait til your mature and an adult say age 17. I once pierced my own nose when I was 14,and guess whut? bad idea that was. not only cause it wasnt sterilized enough but because kids are more likely to have a piercing get infected/rejected. and that’s that. and as for the walking out part no that will not change her mind. trust me I use to be a runaway and my mom always called the cops on me. and I woke up and did as she said shortly after that. so grow up before you go poking holes in your body cause I know that’s whut your thinking too. mmkayy.

Answer #5

why dont you just get it with your dad?

Answer #6

threatening to walk out isn’t a smart thing to do. Obviously she has to have a reason to not allow you to have one, did you ask her why? If she can’t answer that then she basically doesn’t like the idea of you getting one. Sadly enough your mom is being very stubborn with you, have your dad tell something to her, I’m sure he can find a way to convince her, if its as small as you say it is, I really don’t see the problem.

Answer #7

Oh yes, the walking out routine works about as well as it does when you’re 5 and threaten to run away.

You want a nose piercing. You can have one when you’re an adult. SImple as that.

Answer #8

your still a young kid and at 13-14 there really isnt any need to put holes in your face you also stll living under your arents house and need to abide by their rules so maybe just wait untill your old enough to go and get it by yourself

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