How old is too old?

Well I have a 21 year old boyfriend and I love him to death I am 15 Is he to old for me

Answer #1

I mean im 14 and I date and 18 yr old I think it depends of the muturity of the people not their ages…I luv him very dearly and he luvs me ..as long as your happy it really shouldnt matter

Answer #2

Eileen77, shut up.

Answer #3

im back.! If your parents know && like him you shouldnt care what all of these people are seeing with its such a bad thing.. look at it this way. what is the difference between you and someone your own age being together. you can still get introuble have sex. get pregnant do drugs. lie cheat. there is no difference. I hate how people think they know everyones life. I just wish all these people could be in a position like this && experience what its like to be 14, 15 && 16. && being head over hills for an older guy. THIS HER LIFE HER BOYFRIEND HER EVERYTHINGG. People need to be happy that your making the best of your life. being with the one you are happy with. your not only 15 but you have a pretty good idea what you want to do in life. I think you need to follow your heart and if your comfortable with being with an older man and you feel safe with him than you have no worries. tell people like it is.. Say “its my life I live it, not you, get on your level.

Hope I helped if you want to talk fun mail me please!!

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Answer #4

noo. he isnt. does this boy put me a smile on your face. you love him. you cant put an age on love. if you love someone it shouldnt matter what people have to say about your age or anything like that. if you want to talk fun mail me.

Answer #5

thats just messed up, im almost 21 and would never even consider dating a 15 year old because its so wrong. I say this every time, If a 21 year old dates a 15 year old, he doesn’t have very good morals, and morals are what stop a guy from cheating on you and such.

Answer #6

Maturity? How mentally mature is a 14 yr old compared to an 18 yr old? They havent had that life experience yet that comes with age. They are very easy to manipulate. Love at 15, isnt the same ats love at 18!

Answer #7

Yes, age DOES matter when it involves an adult, and a child! It is not appropriate for a minor to be involved with a tweny-one year old man, under any circumstances. Normal adult men date grown women - not schoolgirls. Some men find young girls’ inexperience and trusting nature a turn-on. It’s well-known for pedophiles to ‘prepare’ their victims by being charming, helpful and understanding.

It is much safer just to be “best friends” until you are over 18. Love is worth waiting for. If your partner won’t wait until you are an adult to enter into the serious intimacy that dating brings, you need to ask yourself if he really cares about YOU or has other interests in mind.

Answer #8

He is a pedophile…that is a man who has a sexual relationship with anyone under the age of 18 years old…he should be locked up…you are making a big mistake with someone who is a child molester look it up..call your local police department and ask them if someone 21 was sleeping with someone 15 what would happen they will tell you they would arrest him..he is legally a child molestor…he should be ashamed of himself preying on a child… www.meganlaw.com check out some of your boyfriends friends on this website oh I meant your pedophiles friends

Answer #9

Yeah it DOES matter this guy could wind up going to Jail if he is suspected of being involved with you. Hes a grown man like myself. Makes me laugh to here about all these guys chasing after these highschool little girls.

I agree with Angelfire I like women around my age or older because there women not girls Lol.

Answer #10

It isn’t too young to be in love but it is too young to be having sex. No matter how much you think you know someone you only know what they want you too. Wait a couple years and if he really does love you and want to be with you then he’ll wait. If he won’t wait then he is using you for sex and you have no reason to be with him no matter how much you may love him. Love and relationships are two seperate entities. You can love someone but if they don’t love you, or they don’t treat you like every girl should expect to be treated then you cannot have a relationship. Since he’s older, he has more experience and is smarter so will have an easy time tricking you. Find out what’s really going on by seeing his reaction to not having exactly what he wants when he wants it.

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