How might this work?

Okay, my mate is 14 years of age, soon to be 15, and I am 17. She is pregnant, it was planned; I need no criticism over this. She constantly worries that her mother will force her away from me after she receives the news that she is going to have a baby. I want to know if her mother can do such a thing. After-all, isn’t it not my baby as-well? Also, I do not care much for her mother and neither does my mate. She emotionally abuses her and occasionally physically. Could she stay with me at my house? My mother, whom is divorced, is more then capable of handling another mouth to feed, including the baby. I am more then willing to blackmail her and get her into a loophole if she threatens to call the cops or anything. Would this work?

Answer #1

Uh you need to be careful with that… If the mother wants to, she could file charges on you bc the girl is under 16. If th mother doesn’t go that way, she might go to the other extreme and move away or something. It depends on the mother. I don’t personally understand why y’all would want to have a kid that young, but I am not going to judge. It was y’all’s decision. You need to both sit down with the mother and talk to her together and make sure you both tell her it was planned and you want the child and are not going to leave. That you are going to help raise the child, etc. Do NOT make her sit down alone with her mother. She will need your support. If your mom is more easy going, you may want to sit down with her first, and then after she knows and y’all have discussed everything, THEN go talk to her mom…that will give y’all a better idea of how to break it to her mom. The guys mom usually handles the news better because she isn’t stuck with all the dr bills and everything. Just an idea.

Answer #2

ok since you 17 I Think you need to get a job and not depend on your mother to feed your baby not sayin that you are it just seems like that but the rest seems like a good plan or you could pay child support and get vistation rights. AFTER ALL YOU ARE THE PARENT SO YOU WILL NEED TO SUPPORT YOUR BABY THE MOST. you also want your child in a safe environment. since she is about to be a parent as well as you can’t know tell ya’ll what to do about ya’ll child. do what’s best for the child.

Answer #3

this is a complex situation the soulution I would have to this is have the girl tlk to her mom alone with a phone near tell her to be sure to mention that it was planned, depwnding on how the mother takes this will deturmin if she should live with youu her life is young and her mother may not be ready for her to leave. Therefore offer visiting rights or something in the end things have to be fair to everyone you need to see your love and baby and she needs to see you and her mother needs to see her

Answer #4

K I don’t believe in pre-judging people so it’s okay. Well if it was planned and she knows for sure that she is pregnant than I think you guys should sit down and talk about it. After you get things settled than talk to your mom about it and ask her if it is okay if your girlfriend can stay with you guys. Tell her about the abuse but do NOT guilt her into it. Then after she says yes talk to her parents about it.

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