How ladies do I propose to my girlfriend?

How ladies should I propose to my girlfriend? I have 2 ideas that I like. First idea is to slip the engagement ring onto her finger while she is sleeping and then see her reaction when she wakes up the next morning. Then second idea is to take my girlfriend to a lovely small holiday place I know on the beach. When there I will get a old bottle and write a love poem that leads up to a proposal. I will go bury the bottle in the sand the night before then the next day I will take her for a walk on the beach and mysteriously stumble upon the bottle. We will open the bottle and she will read the poem. When she finishes I will be ready to get down on my knee to propose. Those are my two ideas. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Tanx ladies.

Answer #1

The second one is really sweet.

the only thing to consider is how are you going to keep the bottle there without anyone stealing it?

just figure that out and you will have a wife in no time at all.

:)

Answer #2

im not putting the ring in the bottle people! and its a private beach. plus I said bury! come on only I will know where it is. common sense people

Answer #3

So the first idea is to get engaged to her without her consent and hope she likes the idea when she wakes up, and the second idea is entirely dependent on no one removing your one and only prop before you arrive.

Huh.

Back to the drawing board, I think.

Answer #4

I think the second one is creative but I agree with mikeh (yes I realise the ring isnt in the bottle) I think there are too many variables. Could you maybe get a friend to set up a picnic down on the beach in secret and you could take her for a walk down on the beach and surprise her with that there, read her your poem and propose like that. I think a 3rd party to help you is almost a necessity.

Answer #5

Awww they are so sweet and imaginative. I like the second one better. It seems so spontanious and she really wouldnt be expecting that. On the other hand the ring slipping on the finger when she is asleep, well in the morning she wont be as AHHH!!! HOORAY!!! about it because she will have just woken up. The second one is definetley better and so different. Do the second one. It sounds amazing and spontaneous!

Answer #6

Go with # 2.

Answer #7

I LIKE IDEA 2…

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