Is she trying to make me mad?

okayy so my dads fiancee has a daughter my age. well me and my dad recently sold our house so we have been staying with her and her mom( dads fiancee and daughter) for a while… well her daughter was living with HER dad and now she moved back to her moms and she was like “So my mom said that she has been letting you sleep in my bed… and I was like mom THANKS a lot for letting random people sleep in my bed… and she was like w/e I guess ill get used to the fact that I have to share my d@mn room… Appearntly my MOTHER has forgotten what its like for me to be LIVING here in MY OWN house.) After she told me all this she started txting which was fine with me bc I was texting also but she went to her moms room and said that I told her she was getting on my nerves with all that txting but I never even said anything to her about it. Okayy so I know its hard sharing your home with new people but IM not new… I have known her since I was born and I didnt mind sharing my room when she came to stay with us… So last night I got to sleep on a twin sized matress in the floor… Is she just trying to p!iss me off or is she just being a b!tch or am I the one in the wrong here?

Answer #1

I think you should just talk to her and share your problems with each othere and just tell her that you dont have a problem with her but can she please stop as you like her and just work it out with her she might start cumming around after that hope this helps babez x

Answer #2

I think shes actin like a b!tch because shes worried that you will take her place shell get over it in time just leave her to do her bratty thing and sulk it off

Answer #3

I think shes just being a b*tch . Probably because she feels like your intruding

Answer #4

she is the one that is wrong not you… she is mad becuase she doesnt want her mom to love you like her and she is jelous… if it was me I couldnt take that you need to tell her what you think so she doesnt think you will allow her to run all over you and I want you to tell her I said this its not write that you dont have your own bed and she does her mom is showing favortism towards her you changed your whole life so that your dad could be with her tell them all what you feel they need to put the shoe on the other foot I hope it works out well:)

Answer #5

I Think She Sounds Like A B!tch tell her to go Fu3k herself!!

Answer #6

Well your in her house and myabe she doesn’t like that her mom has a new guy in her life. and so she is takeing it out on you.

Answer #7

It sounds like she might be getting jealous of the relationship you have with your dad’s fiance. I know it’s hard, I never experienced having a stepsister my own age, but when I was 15 my mom married a man who had 5 year old twin daughters. At first I was excited about having little sisters, but then it got to where when they were over (every other weekend) that I had to sleep on the couch, so they could have the bed, just little things like that. Anyway, more to the point… it will get better over time, it’s been ten years, and I no longer refer to them as my “stepsisters”. They are my little sisters. I love them, and we have a great relationship. My daughters love them and they call them Aunt Maddie and Aunt Mill, ( their names are Madelyn and Amelia, lol, but my girls are only 3 and 4). But, you are doing nothing wrong. So don’t beat yourself up about it. Give her some time to warm up to the idea, and maybe suggest that your parents should buy 2 twin beds, so you each have a bed and no one has to sleep on the floor. Talk to your Dad about it, and see what he has to say. Then if that doesn’t work, next time she pulls a stunt like that, show her you are NOT going to take it. She may just be trying to see how far she can push you before you snap. Good luck, and I hope it all works out for you!

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