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How would you react if your husband was infertile (girls only)?

Hi girls, everyone worries about fertility, if I were married and if my wife or I had to be infertile, I would wish my wife was, because I know I would still love her and I would be with her and because it was not her fault, thats my answer…ok to the question… You are madly in love with a guy and you are married, and you really want to have a baby but you find out your husband is infertile, how would you feel about that? Would you work through this problem with him or would you want a divorce?

Please answer honestly…it must be like ‘if you were in that situation, what would you do’ type of answer.

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Answer #1

Wow, I see more & more couples are having issues with fertility!! I have to say, I know many many relationships that have suffered from this. Do you stay, Do you go…? What if the reason was reversed? Do you think he would leave you? How secure is your relationship is the real question at hand! There are so many ways today to have a baby..like those that were mentioned here earlier. In my opinion, Where there’s a will there is a way…If you truly are happy with your significant other, I believe you will find the right way in the right time, to choose what is right for you both! What ever you do decide, make sure it comes out of love…Adopting can be a gift in disguise if other methods fail…just think of the addition to your family & love it just the same, as if it really were your own. Take the time to really weight your options with your significant other because I am sure he is really feeling down since it is on his part, not yours…I am confidant that you both will make the right decision when the time comes.

Good Luck!

Answer #2

If having a child was completely impossible with my significant other I would either choose a sperm donor or adopt. It’s definitely a situation that will test your bond. But in my opinion if you’re at the level of wanting a child you’re bond should be strong anyway.

xox Sika

Answer #3

IF I were ever in a situation like that, I would adopt. That is IF I really wanted children, which now seems like I never want.

Answer #4

Well..it will be really sad to know such thing..but divorce?no way!!definitely if I would be there we would find some other options such as adoption or other fertility options (artificially)!!!

Answer #5

I know somebody that was in a similar situation, in the end they decided that adoption was way forward for them personally. Maybe IVF or something similar is the way forward for you, although there are all those moral questions about it. If he’s infertale because of a low sperm count it may be possible to still get pregnant with his baby (not naturally of course). Honestly I dont know what I would do it depends on the circumstance if your not that in love I would prbably divorce, but if worships the ground you walk on adoptions probably the best idea. best of luck

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