how fast to go

When being with a girl on a date or something else, how fast should I take it in steps? You know what I mean. Well I am typing this question is I hung out with 2 girls after school for a bit, sat on the grass hill in the breeze, talked. And my buddy wanted to know why I did not try anything. I said I doubt they would want to do anything and he insured me that they would and next time I should make a move. I was wondering if I did that( make a move) would that just not creep them out because we are not even dating or know eachother that well? Any advice?

Answer #1

angelfire2708, please don’t take what I am saying the wrong way. I have lots of respect for girls, I am a very nice guy as well. I was asking because of the bad advice from my friend, he always has lots of girl friends so I asked him for advice. I was never intending to make a move on them, I just wanted to hang out, talk, get to know each other better. I did not thinking, maybe I should take my friends advice because he always has lots of lady friends around. Now that I think about it, he is always rude and mean to his girl friends, I don’t know how he bes so rude and still have lots of girl friends. I was just taking his bad advice and running it buy you guys. But I am sorry if you took my question the wrong way, thats not who I am.

Answer #2

Why do you feel like you have to make a move on a girl just because you are hanging out? Are you just out to get some action, or do you truly want to get to know a girl better? Sounds like you’re just looking for a piece of a$$. I suggest having respect for females, because they do have feelings. Girls arent toys to be played with, used, then tossed aside. Talking is a good way to really get to know a person!

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