how do you nicely tell your boyfriend that you dont want to be fingered..?

my boyfriend really wants to finger me and I dont really want him to because I dont like hiding it behind my moms back because she would kill me if I told her and what do I do ? like how do I tell him no without making him feel bad ? pleaaasseee help .

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Answer #1

do it when you are reafy not when he wants it if you are scared because of your mum then tell him im not ready yet and kiss him if he doesnt understand then he isnt the right guy for you im a boy and I waited for my girl to say she was ready for me to finger her tell him if he waits when you are ready you will give im something in returm sexually

Answer #2

do it when you think your ready. I haven’t told my mum anything other than I’ve got into someone which means kissing btw. you don’t have to tell your mum anything, anything to do with sex or fore play or anything is private, it should just stay between you & the person your doing it with and whoever you wanna tell. hope I helped. xx

Answer #3

Listen, if your in a relationship then you should be able to talk to your partner, if not then you are not ready to engage in these actions anyway. If it were me in his position and you said exactly that: “I dont like hiding it behind my moms back, and im just not ready” Then no one should get their feelings hurt. Dont let him put any pressure on you, it is YOUR decision and you will do it only when you are 100% ready, that is the most important thing. And if he cant except that then honestly he isnt worth it.

Answer #4

hunnie.. sometimes its ok to tell a lie.. I mean.. if you feel really satisfied with your boyfriend fingering you then just enjoy it.:) you don’t have to tell everything to your mom..

Answer #5

Well, not that I support the action, but why is it her business? Why would you have to tell her?

But you’re WAY to young to be worrying about this stuff. Why are you even dating at this age?

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