How do you make your boyfriend jealous without him dumping you?

Okay my boyfriend and I went to the beach for spring break and we were driving and it seemed like every cute girl he saw he had to stare at and it made me really jealous, I mean sure he paid me a lot of attention but he also gave that attention to other girls and I just want him to feel what I feel when he does that and it happens a lot. Please help me.

Answer #1

you need to understand that hes a guy and even though it sucks, guys are visual creatures they stare at things they find attractive you do too I assume, only guys dont really know how to hide the fact there staring at girls, so its more obvious if your not happy with this you need to talk to him about it trying to make him jealous wont do anything, guys dont really understand when your trying to make them jealous, and hes more likely to think your blowing him off or being a bi*ch to him so just talk to him

Answer #2

I understand that it is hurtful but you must not descend to his level. Males have that unfortunate tendency to ogle females, but you can’t let it bother you. If that’s how your boyfriend acts, chances are it’s better to dump him. Come on- a good boyfriend would not give other girls as much attention as he gives to his actual girlfriend.

And just so you know, he is exploiting your weakness- your jealousy. Trust me, when someone is jealous it is absolutely always written all over their face and it is giving your boyfriend a lot of satisfaction. And why not? You’re letting him know that you only want his attention on you and that is an ego-booster for all men.

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