How do you check yourself, to see if your a virgin or not?

I am wondering if I might have broken my hymen when I was younger. Im 14 now, and even though I’m young, I tried having sex with this guy & I told him I was a virgin, and so he was trying to make sure he found my hole and that I was relaxed. But he just couldnt find it he said, but I felt his penis in what I think was my hole; and it did hurt. But we gave up because he didn’t see any blood, so he thought he just couldnt find my hole? We tried multiple times, and everytime I felt it and it hurt. But because I didnt bleed…he thought he didnt het his penis in my hole?

Answer #1

garyswife is right. You are not a virgin, you know if its in or not. I had sex with a few people before I bled. I actually had sex around ten times before it was broken. Good luck, be safe. Sex is not for fourteen year olds but anyways, hope this helped

Answer #2

If you felt it and it hurt, then he was in and you aren’t a virgin anymore (you are too young to be trying this anyway or you would already know the answer). Some girls don’t have hymens or the hymen is broken when riding a bike or horse, or playing sports, etc. He entered you. You are no longer a virgin.

Answer #3

if you actually started, then you arent a virgin; A hymen has nothing to do with being a virgn. a virgin is someone who has not had sex.

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