How Do you MakeOut

Im 14 and I dont know how to makeout. But my girlfriend does and I dont know what to do… What do I do if she makes the move on me?

Please help I need it really bad!!!

Answer #1

uhm…I am 13 and I have only made out wid 3 guys but you just really go by there actions and go wid da flow. just wateva you do nvr close your mouth. I mean personally I choose nt 2 use my tounge but if my partener duz it duznt bother me. what im sayn is you just go wid da flow and let them lead!

Answer #2

ok you open your mouth and sick your touge in hers then she will do the rest… guys say im really good at makin out and no 1 taught me so just kinnda do what she does but HUGE turn offs r dont have bad breath dont open your mouth 2 wide *dont sick your tounge down the throught hope I helped if not sry

Answer #3

well, my first time was with a window. it was just so tempting. I leaned in and just went crazy. I lost myself in the moment. its great practice, I suggest this for every beginner. The next night I went to my friends party and it all went perfectly. The guy even told me that I was good!

Answer #4

its actually a lot easier then I ever thought it would be. first you should start off by putting your arms around her and moving in slowly. You should close your eyes and its actually pretty easy you just move your tongue around but not too much. It’s not that easy to explain but im sure youll be fine. good luckk!

Answer #5

its just like a kiss only more sensual and there is tongue action and if your like me the girls love that bottom lip and just like stick your tongue in her mouth and wiggle your tongue around in her mouth

Answer #6

Ok so me and ma bst frnd wr frkn owt bwt it wn we wr dwn at hr btch wn we wr like 11 and so we prcticed on each otha, it cums naturali, soon ul e a pro, the guy loves it if you sit on top o him well doin it

If you don’t no wt to do mke owt wid da bck o your hnd its the mst like a mouth, weird but gud!!!

Answer #7

I remember when I was looking for advice on this topic. I was 18 and had never made out before. my bestfriend gave me advice on how to make out and it was everything comes naturally. I made out with a guy and he was the one to make the first move. and my bestfriend was sooo right, it just came to me. I followed his lead with the kissing. while kissing you could rub her thigh and work your way to her butt. whatever you feel comfortable with. hope that helps.

Answer #8

let her lead u, it will all come naturally to u

Answer #9

I had this same prob but in my case my girl at the time was two years older than me :P well all you gotta do is kiss her and let it go from there its all natural I mean it just comes to you and you know exactly what to do. but if it gets boring I got two words wandering hands :P

Answer #10

Alrite.I found this really cool website that can tell you how to doe just about anything.It’s called Wikihow.com: http://www.wikihow.com/Main-Page It gives you information about how to french someone,how to truly make out,how to hint someone for a kiss and a whole lot of other really helpful stuff on relationships.Just don’t type in make out in the search box.Typing ‘kiss’ in the box will give you the most helpful results from frenching to just a kiss.Hope I helped!!! :)

Answer #11

ok so my first makeout with a guy was horrible. Don’ts…

open your mouth too wide stick your tongue down her throat try too hard (you’ll end up over doing it and you’ll end up coming off like your a dog licking her face)

Do…

hold her somehow (touch her face, or rub your fingers through her hair) the rest just go with the flow (dont freak out)

Answer #12

just go with it I’m fourteen and I just recently had my first makeout I was scared to death but dont worry you’ll be fine I’ll practice with ya if you want ;) oooh naughty naughty

Answer #13

just follow her lead thats how i learned and most of the chicks i M/O with are satisfied they even said so after we broke it off

Answer #14

dude, i have the exact same problem, but it is worse for me, i already made out with her once, and i heard from one of her friends i am bad at it!!! and i do not know what to do!!! should i break up with her? or give it another chance

Answer #15

everyboby starts off not knowing how to kiss but when you first kiss the girl ..you him lead and she will follow and then you would because better at it.

Answer #16

well I would just go with the flow…when I fiirst made out I had no clue on how. to just follow her lead youll get the hang of it its a natural thing no one can really teach you unless there tongue is in your mouth

Answer #17

You really just go with the flow of whatever the guy or girl is doing. I just let the guy lead on my first kiss. Its like simon says. He does it and then you do the exact same thing. Just maybe get a little creative. After a while maybe you could become the simon

Answer #18

boy you 14 and havent made out with a girl thats sad but you just say im nurvuse and havent done thise before say you need 2 teach me but say it in a sexy way and explorer with your tung

Answer #19

How to make out? It shouldnt be hard. If you really like someone, just go in for the kill. One thing for sure is that girls love it when the guy makes the move…we actually just wait for that. If you think they are shy, they are not. If this girl likes you, she most likely day dreams of making out with you late at night…just do it! Good luck! :)

Answer #20

some people are saying they follow their lead how do you know what their leading???

Answer #21

relax and go with the flow first kiss her on the lips twice and it will go from there

Answer #22

well I remember my first make out Just start out by telling it girlfriend how beautiful she is and how lucky you are to have her Hold her close and look her in the eyes then make a move She’ll be surprised and excited! Just go with it hold her tight and follow your lips with her and use your toungue and nip her lower lip with it teeth! you get the hang of it fast! Hope I helped

Answer #23

well me and my girlfriend both have never made out and I am super positive we both want to but don’t know how so I can’t really follow her so what do I do???

help please

Answer #24

judd give her another chance maybe it will go better next time

Answer #25

dude I fell ya, 2 day I was wit ma girlfriend and was chillin and skool. im 15 I have kissed many girls but never actualy madeout wit anyone. so I was huging her, looked her in da eyes said “baby, you beautiful 2 nite and I love u” I leaned in and it really came naturaly (wich I thout woulent happen). all ya gotta do is open your mouth (not like a hipo of corce) and jus let your tounge dance wit hers. and now I cant stop thinken bout her and that magical moment.

Answer #26

Say OLIVE when you making out :)

Answer #27

kiss her and play along with it

Answer #28

just dont over think it. I think people do that to much. they say it comes natural for most people. so just go for it.

Answer #29

Making out isn’t hard at all. all you have to do is peck her on the lips and then make your moves but make sure she knows whats coming. otherwise it’ll just be really akward and messed up. Once the first time is over youll have it down. I was terrified my first time to tho so I completely understand but all you need to do is start it and she will start to make out with you. then you wont have to worry about messing up if you just do what she does. Use protection and have fun!

Answer #30

if she makes a move…then just follow along and get all nasty! start to have a good time!:0

Answer #31

ok when I read thse comments I was like omg ya your right BUT EXCEPT the part when people ssaid it comes natural…WTF DOES THAT MEAN!?!??!? so I made out with my boyfriend lastnight and what I just did was 1.kissed a couple time and then you get confortable to take the next step 2.slowly open yo mouth and see if your partner will do that same 3. then if yo partner opens its mouth too, slowly put yo tounge in and open and close yo lips (like if yo kissing) but dont really close yo mouth just move it up and down 4. just take turns putting eachothers tounge in yo mouths xD AND thats how I got threw it and also when you guys are making out like rub slowly yo partners back or get them closer to you. hope this helps fo thos who is going to make out soon!! OH ALSO if you dont know what the hell im talking about just follow what yo partner is doing (if they have past experiance) if they dont then read carefully to my steps <3

Answer #32

well first kiss her bottom lip gently then her top a little more urgently. then suck her bottom lip but dont make it messy. kiss her top lip and slide your tounge on her lip. if she lets you put your tounge in her mouth, put your lips on her top lip and stick your tounge in the area in between her top lip and her gums, thats a hot spot. then just do what comes naturally or you can just copy her.

Answer #33

go with the flow but add your own moves dont go to fast or to hard and breath through your mouth. Or just follo her but after awile your instincts will kick in and you will be leading her.

hope my advice helps

Answer #34

[: oh godd. I remember the first time I made out ! well - I was 11 years old. and I was at my friend anthony’s birthday party. well - it was like a makeout session. everyone was making out with everyone pretty much. cause there was a spin the bottle game, but I did feel bad because Anthony wansn’t getting any [no girls liked him]

well , my first kiss was this one guy at the party. I felt so bad because at the time he had a girlfriend and I totally forgot about it. and it turned out that she foundout but shes such a forgiving person she forgot all about it [:

haha , enough with the stories. all you have to do is BE CALM. whatever you do - don’t let your ‘partner’ [remember this isn’t sex ; it’s kissing haha!] that your worried or anything. and don’t chew gum ! well , you can if you would like to be playful and swith gum around, but other than that use mints because gum usually produces more saliva and whenever theres more spit - it’s wayy sloppier! and most people would think thats disgusting. & also - don’t go too fast ! if you go way too fast the person wont be able to keep up and it’d just be terrible ! and if you need help starting - guys think it’s sexy whenever GIRLS make the first move. but that usally doesn’t happen haha. whoever starts usually takes the lead. so if you start , your ‘partner’ will follow you around & if your a beginner , I wouldn’t reccomend starting.

hope it helps!

Answer #35

[: oh godd. I remember the first time I made out ! well - I was 11 years old. and I was at my friend anthony’s birthday party. well - it was like a makeout session. everyone was making out with everyone pretty much. cause there was a spin the bottle game, but I did feel bad because Anthony wansn’t getting any [no girls liked him]

well , my first kiss was this one guy at the party. I felt so bad because at the time he had a girlfriend and I totally forgot about it. and it turned out that she foundout but shes such a forgiving person she forgot all about it [:

haha , enough with the stories. all you have to do is BE CALM. whatever you do - don’t let your “partner” [remember this isn’t sex ; it’s kissing haha!] that your worried or anything. and don’t chew gum ! well , you can if you would like to be playful and swith gum around, but other than that use minds because gum usually produces more saliva and whenever theres more spit - it’s wayy sloppier! and most people would think thats disgusting. & also - don’t go too fast ! if you go way too fast the person wont be able to keep up and it’d just be terrible ! and if you need help starting - guys think it’s sexy whenever GIRLS make the first move. but that usally doesn’t happen haha. whoever starts usually takes the lead. so if you start , your “partner” will follow you around & if your a beginner , I wouldn’t reccomend starting.

hope it helps!

Answer #36

[: oh godd. I remember the first time I made out ! well - I was 11 years old. and I was at my friend anthony’s birthday party. well - it was like a makeout session. everyone was making out with everyone pretty much. cause there was a spin the bottle game, but I did feel bad because Anthony wansn’t getting any [no girls liked him]

well , my first kiss was this one guy at the party. I felt so bad because at the time he had a girlfriend and I totally forgot about it. and it turned out that she foundout but shes such a forgiving person she forgot all about it [:

haha , enough with the stories. all you have to do is BE CALM. whatever you do - don’t let your “partner” [remember this isn’t sex ; it’s kissing haha!] that your worried or anything. and don’t chew gum ! well , you can if you would like to be playful and swith gum around, but other than that use minds because gum usually produces more saliva and whenever theres more spit - it’s wayy sloppier! and most people would think thats disgusting. & also - don’t go too fast ! if you go way too fast the person wont be able to keep up and it’d just be terrible ! and if you need help starting - guys think it’s sexy whenever GIRLS make the first move. but that usally doesn’t happen haha. whoever starts usually takes the lead. so if you start , your “partner” will follow you around & if your a beginner , I wouldn’t reccomend starting.

hope it helps!

Answer #37

Lol… I remember wondering the exact same thing when I was 16… I had no I dea what to do and was scared out of my mind! I wasn’t sure if he would still like me afterwards, but th moment came and it was honestly one of those fairytale kisses, I had butterflies the entire time! this is what I did:

  1. I told myself to relax
  2. If he broke up with me because I wasn’t to sure how to do it and he couldn’t lead me and help me along, well then he simply wasn’t worth it.
  3. Lol I brushed my teeth and chewd minty gum (which helps when you do finally kiss him… because he tries to steal your gum with his tongue ;)
  4. I looked deeply into his eyes… then leaned in…
  5. Closed my eyes and felt his heart beating against mine, then locked lips with him…
  6. I caressed his face gently and remembered to BREATHE through my nose… lol you don’t want to pass out on him
  7. I painted his tongue with mine… makes a ‘8’ shape on his tongue with my tongue
  8. I ran my fingers through his hair and sighed
  9. I gently nibbled on his bottom lip which made him moan like crazy (remember a gentle nibble, you dont want him missing one lip now) and finally no.
  10. I looked seductively into his eyes and smile and blushed a lot…

And afterwards we held hands and I layed in his arms and we kissed again, and I promise you every kiss since then has been just as good, if not even better!!! And dont think this is only for the girls to do, guys you can do exactly the same for your little lady :)

Just remember if you treat a girl with respect and if your patient and gentle, when the moment does come, it will be one of those forget-me-not moments :)

Answer #38

Making out is so easy and “making out” can be differnt like :]

first off you kiss her lips soft and then when your ready you’ll both open your mouths and she’ll probably ram her tounge in your mouth that means put your tounge in her mouth dont be like a washing machine! going round and round her mouth

experiment! you’ll only get better by experiance so GO for it! and be creative :] it will just come naturally aswel :] x

Answer #39

Use a little bit of tongue and make it twist and turn. Become loose and smooth. Don’t focus on putting all tongue in her mouth. I’m 13 also and that’s how idid itafter a few tmes you’ll get used to it. If you get an erection it’s totally normal. Maybe shell give you a handjob. I havnt got that far! Goodluck!!! ZTV

Answer #40

put your right hand on her waist and left on her shoulder blade start as you would a kiss then open your mouth put your tounge against hers pull out but keep lips touchin and do it again

Answer #41

just go with the flow…it comes natural and is actually really easy

Answer #42

tell her to close your eyes…undo your pants…and plop it in her mouth thats how real men kiss

Answer #43

im 14 and im like in LOVE with a guy who is my close family friend :$ anyways, I dont want to tell him how I feel, because I dont want to ruin our friendship, but at the same time I REALLY want to hook up with him. I have NEVER made out with him before, or with anyone :$ but im scared to because I dont want to make things awkward or ruin our friendship. Me and him were like SOOO close to doing it when we were snuggling reaally adorably. But im nervous and scared … PLEASE HELPP !!! :( ♥

Answer #44

I personally dislike making out. I enjoy kissing, so so so much. Every guy I’ve ever kissed said I was fantastic. Its insane, I bet they didn’t know I had a fear of making out. I have a strict ‘no tongue babe’ bases. And they respect that, but I feel maybe I’m limiting my fun.

I bet you’re wondering why? Its purely because my first two kisses were tongue, and well - They were like dishwashers. One of them even chucked in a blade or two ! Might have even been some dish washing liquid in there ;)

Yes I know. I find kissing more romantic. I know it sounds dull but I’m not sure how to explain it, but the way I kiss it passionate, or sweet, I adjust it to suit the mood and status I guess. Like in a romance film.

I know I sound big headed, I apologise I am far from it! I just know that’s what I’m good at. Give yourself some credit for what you’re good at, aye :)

Though damn, I wouldn’t mind being a pro at ALL oral acts ;) I should start being a little more adventurous.

Answer #45

First thing you need to do: RELAX. If you’re all nervous and tense, you’ll just end up messing up or making it a bad experience for her.

Second thing, you should probably let her lead. Then just go with it, maybe let her play with your tongue, and then just start to copy her. If she moans or pulls you closer, it means she likes it, and you can continue.

Here’s a tip. I know it sounds weird, but you should really practice kissing your palm. Pretend you’re tracing her lips with your tongue, but lick your palm. If it tickles, she might like it. If it just feels wet, ease up on the pressure.

Hope that helped even a little bit!

Answer #46

you should just go with the flow if she makes a move on you dont hold back. when the moment come you should know what to do.but if you dont then start with a regular kiss.slow and gentle.then slightly open her mouth with your tounge and touch her tougne with yours playfully!then just go with the flow but dont go too rough itll feel like your trying to swallow her . good luck

Answer #47

I finally made out 2 days ago and nit was amazing… I just kinda stuck my toung in her mouth and moved it oround then it came to me and I got really creative and had a lot of fun

Answer #48

well you gotta make the first move its way hotter and when you do you gotta look at her in her eyes and lean in and then you kiss her KEEP your MOUTH OPEN AND BREATH THREW your NOSE when French kissing a tip is to say MELON in your head but mouth it when your kissing and always keep your tongue moving no matter what don’t let it just sit there when your threw peck her by her mouth and whisper in her ear that she is beautiful or another sweet compliment and I promise you she will be thinking about you all day long. well thats pretty much it good luck :D

Answer #49

hey, ok making out, can be WAY intimidating, like seriously, I just did it for the 1st time, like 1st kiss & all, 3 weeks ago (I know it sounds like I might be inexperienced but just take my word for it) but yeah, if you really like this girl, than just start KINDOF slow, not too slow, just like pecking, you know light, and gradually work your way up to toung,.. but MOST IMPORTANT, dont just go for it w/ the toung, start out little, if you try 2 move 2 fast w/ that or just decide 2 go for it cause your excited, it can be a little akward, or even gross.. if your girlfriend really does know what she’s doing, you can start the kissing, but then sort of mirror her movements, but differ a little, you know? change it up:) good luck! really:)

Answer #50

me and my girlfriend just made out for the first time on valentines day.first start out small give her a peck on the lips and from there you will feel very VERY great next you’ll be used to it and you will have to go big after that and dont hold back. I have some advice for you chew gum like five gum or stride and dont open your mouth to big or you will bump teeth and and that is a turn off big time.one more thing make it romantic. and good luck!!wish you the best dude.

Answer #51

go with the flow..that sounds kindda hard..but I dont know I dont want to come out sounding corny..omg I’ve never made out and im really embarassed..is there someway I can practice?? im embarassed to even tell my best friends… what do I do..these tips dont seem to be helping..:’(

Answer #52

just be upfront about it,tell her that uve never done it before,and you both can have fun lerning! trust me I was 14 once…and now im 15=)

Answer #53

hey homie dont stress its really simple I have been datin the same girl for 11 months so if she makes the first move keep her waitin I know its hard but do it then you make the move a few minutes later don’t just rush in to it kiss for about 4 seconds the lick her lips and open your mouth if she wants to make out she will open her mouth now once this is done just play with her tongue is my best advice ok hand placment depends on how well you know the chick a new girl friend hold her head and play with her hair if you know he well try her hips and if you know her really really and I mean really well try for her butt thats all the advice I got homie good luk

Answer #54

theres nothing to be worried about. it just comes naturally to everyone. I mean whats actually the worst that could happen. she’ll just need to accept that maybe your not as experienced, but thats it. so, if the moment comes up dont be scared. just go for it

Answer #55

well what you need to do is make the first move its way hotter that way you look into her eyes and you lean in and then you kiss her and well thats not hard either a trick for tongue kissing is to say MELON in your head but mouth it when your kissing you can run your hands threw her hair or just hold her waist when your done peck her next to her mouth and tell her shes beautiful or something sweet. well thats pretty much it good luck :D

Answer #56

put your hand in a position like you are holding a pole, that hookup with it like the hand is the lips and the area in between is the mouth. try spelling your name in script with your toungue, quite frankly any other word would work too. chewing gum makes it really sexy especially if it transfers. I am 14 when I was 12 I hooked up with this guy& I ended up with his gum it was so hottt. a year ago I hooked up with this kid & he told me I was doing it too fast? so I guess go slow(: most guys like how I do it so yaa! hooking up/making out is amazinggg<33

Answer #57

just go with their flow, i know everyone tells you that, but even if you are nervous, just think, what am i scared of. and even if your bad it won’t even matter to them because they just got to makeout. so really, i wouldn’t think they care, and if it’s your girlfriend, and your bad. she won’t mind helping you get better. hope that helped. [:

Answer #58

well i had the same problem. me and my friend said that it was time for me and my boyfriend to makeout so i asked her how to and she said that its basicly opening and closeing ur mouth and then slide ur tounge across theres. and her and her boyfriend have only been dateing for about 4 months and me and my boyfriend has been datein for a year and 2 months pretty sad lol. okay well i hope this helps

Answer #59

Ok, dont worry if you dont know how to make out because it just comes naturally. if your girlfriend makes a move then just jump right in, that shows that you both are committed to your relationship and if she likes you then she wont mind how you kiss. when she sticks her tongue in your mouth do the same back, just dont eat her face, that sucks. let her lead all the moves and you do the same back. I just made out for the first time the other day and I was really scared but it is actually really easy and really fun. it was my first time and this guy who has kissed so many girls before said that I was a really good kisser so you never know how it is going to turn out and dont assume the worst.

Hope you do well!!!

Answer #60

its actually a lot easier if your with someone who has done it before.. let her lead and if she touches something you touch it on her back..let say your kissing and she starts rubbing your chest..slowly touch her face then kind of let your hand fall onto her chest and GENTLY work that area.. if she touches something else..VV then thats your go ahead to do the same. hope it works out for you budd

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