How do you know what love is

I Know people that say ohh I love him & a week later ther already over so is it sumthin you can feel or what?? can you fall in love @ any age??

Answer #1

I believe in love. Probably because I’m a soppy girl. >.<

Most couples use the phrase in the first day, week or month and never mean it.

I think love is when you feel butterflies flutter in your stomach when you see your partner and think “yes…I’m happy. I could spend the rest of my life with them”.

I think you can love when you believe you know what it is. For example, children might not know the extent of love towards others. Perhaps with their parents, they can, but not other people. This means they might not know what love is. But when we mature and grow older, you see the deeper value of love with family members and partners.

But, I do think, we can not know the true meaning of love, because we all think at some point of what love is. But we can all make a different meaning of love and what it feels like to ourselves: to personalise it basically.

I hope this answers your question =)

Answer #2

Here’s the only answer I could come up with, for most of us love is to often just a passing emotion. You know the one I’m talking about, the love you feel for that special someone or thing that you feel you can not live without. The one or thing that everytime you see them you get butterflys and can’t concentrate or take your eyes off of. But in reality it’s either hormones or ljonliness the need to not be alone. Tor me Love is the willingness and sincerity to forgive others of their faults and mistakes that we all make.It’s the knowledge that you must accept people and things at face value and not judge or ridicule their actions when they did not know better. Love is this warm sensation that comes over you, when ever you look or hear the person or voice. Love is the desire and the need to protect them from all harm and still let them go if that is their wish. Mostly Love is the knowledge that you will not ever have to say Sorry. There are no age limits on old you must be to know Love or to fall in Love. Also, you can truly Love someone, and still not be In Love with them. Love comes in many forms, and each time you fall it’s like the first time all over again It’s always exciteing joyfull and adventurous and the day you don’t feel Love around you. Your gone!

Answer #3

I wrote an article about this: http://ohsarah.com/articles/love-at-fourteen/ I wrote it a year ago though, so some of my opinions have changed. I personally think that if you truly love someone, then that love will never die. That is why when some of my friends are like “I love him, bla bla bla” I am sceptical because I know that in a week, a month, a year’s time they won’t feel that way any more. As long as you are enjoying the relationship, whether you actually love him or not doesn’t really matter because you’ll know the answer to that sooner or later. Only time can show you how you really feel; you often find that a few months after a break up, you realise how you really felt about a person. So I wouldn’t concentrate too hard on trying to label what you’re feeling and just enjoy what you’ve got whilst you have it.

Answer #4

I think it’s like any emotion, it varies from person to person.

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