How do I tell my parents I want to move in with my boyfriend?

A relationship that has been on, and off for that long, doesnt sound like it has a very solid foundation! Moving in together will NOT by any means make things better. I have found it doesnt have very good results!

Ups and downs are normal, but the truth is that back-and-forth, breakup and makeup romances are downright exhausting. Enough already! Getting into a breakup/makeup pattern can reignite that lost passion. Never a dull moment when things are about to end (“I never want to see you again!”) or on the mend (“How could I ever be without you?”). The problem is that although these feelings can be totally thrilling, they are guaranteed not to last!

Opposites attract Sometimes, you can have genuine feelings for a guy, but the simple fact is that you two don’t get along. If you say, “It’s black,” he says, “It’s white.” If you say, “You’re right–it’s white,” he says, “No, it’s black!” You can’t win, and you know in your heart of hearts you two are not compatible. So, really, what’s the point? Maybe you’re a girl who’d rather be with any guy than no guy at all. But do you really want to settle for less? You should want a guy who’s right for you. Getting on solid ground being in a relationship that swings like a monkey in a tree will tap your emotional energy. Plus, how can you really trust someone when neither of you knows when the next ax is gonna fall? Worse, your behavior could cost you the respect of your friends. If you and your guy can figure out how to deal with conflicts in a healthy way, great! If not, it’s probably time to get off the Big Dipper.

You guys are on shakey ground as it is- making a home in an unstable relationship is a BAD idea. It doesn’t matter if you guys have decided things are going to change- what’s the bet you thought that the last time? And the time before that?

If you wanna move out, move out without him. Find your feet by yourself. If you live together, and it’s still “off and on”, it gets really tiring and expensive moving your stuff in and out again repeatedly.

You’ve been on and off with him for 4 years. What makes you think it’s going to be different this time around? You said things are going to work because you two are not going to see each other that much even though you’re moving in with him? I don’t get it.

My advice would be to find a new boyfriend before you tell your parents anything. If it’s not meant to be, it’s not meant to be. You can’t make a relationship work like this. If anything, moving in with your boyfriend will make things worse.

Well first you need to tell them that your still going out wif your boyfreind And then explain that… “i would like to move out and live with my boyfreind i really would like too”

then say “ i will live here for a bit like 3 or 4 months then i would like to too live with him.

if they say no then my advice is stupid sorry if it dont work out but i bet it will love lauren xxxxxxx

simple answer

walk up to parents… open mouth… move vocal cords in accordance with the sounds of… (im moving out. living with boy friend I never told you about. love you guys but love him more. etc blablabla) walk away…

in simpler terms grow a pair and tell them