How do I tell my mom shes hurting me?

So my mom has this sickness I dont really know2 what its called. Anyway we recently adopted my baby cousin shes been with us since her first day born. But now I have to take care of her. Im only 16 and no its not a lesson for me not to get preg. Its all the time. I cook clean. And make my dads lunch. Oh yea and im homeschooled! But right now im not really learning anything. I have no friends since I left school. I only have my boyfriend. And thats the only friend I have im not exagerating. Its a fact! Anyway I feel as if I dont have a life. The most I go out is nomore than 3 times a week. And thats to go get groceries anyway im lonely. I need help. Yesterday I talked back to my mom and she hit me. Now im grounded for 3 days. What do I do?

Answer #1

Well you are 16 and cocking and helping around is something that you are should do I mean what do you want?

to always be hangin out and have fun like lots of people say?

Its not like that… your family is going a downhill right know and the best you can do is coraporate and just try your best.. your mom hit you because you talked back? well then dont I mean it can seem hard because you might feel that your responsibility is too much on your shoulders but your mom is sich and she needs some help

Have you tried meaby bringing some of the xtended family to talk to or to help you out? I mean sometimes life can fall appart like that but we have to put it back together You can fun mail me if you want or anathing…

good luck

Answer #2

Maybe your lessons are not achedemic right now but you are getting a lesson in life and how to be a good parent. by taking care of your cousin and doing the household chores. And how to be or not to be a good parent by the way your mom is treating you. Sorry to inform you but thats what life is a series of many lessons. This sounds crazy but when they hurt they are the most important lessons. Im sure in two years or sooner you can find a nearby college and take pre college classes there. They have testing so they know where you left off. You sound pretty smart. And the smartest thing to do is not get pregnant by your boyfriend. Trust me you want to have a since of self and feel like you took soom time to be your own person. There are lots of people who need friends. Don’t worry their out there and will be there for you. You are a important person. Don’t fight your life give in to helping and become a loving part of your family. Trust me when we get to the end of our lifes its most important-What did I do to better the situation at the time? When was I loving and givng without asking for anything in return? This is truely the greatest gift we can give ourselves.

Answer #3

Go to your dad. He might be able to help. Go over to him and say, “ Dad, I need to talk to you seriously. This is not some teenage girl thing.” Then explain your situation. He might be able to hire a nanny or something. Hope this helps!

Answer #4

contact a proffessional of some kind if your dad doesnt do anything its doesnt sound like your really having a childhood and if you dont want to watch the baby then tell them its not you responability and you wanna go back to school so you can make something of your life (just an idea) :) x

Answer #5

I suggest telling your dad. :( I know how you feel. try asking for your own space, but do it when she is in a good mood

Answer #6

If your asking how to tell your mom she’s hurting you…just tell her that when she hit you she hurt you. More than she needed to. If its on a daily basis…get some help. If your asking what to do about your punishment just deal with it. I get in trouble all the time for stuff like your doing. So suck it up…take tour punishment like the woman thay tyou are. As for the hitting just let her know that she hurt you and that she didn’t need to do it that hard

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