How do I tell her

Ok so I have been going out with tthis girl for 2 1/2 years now and its pretty seriouse and everything…I want to tell her that im bi…and that I am starting to get interested in another guy… But I am afraid that it will ruin everything between us in friendship wise..I want to tlk about it with her to see if we can deal with it…because I think breaking it off after that amount of time is kinda rude…I dont know what to do

Answer #1

ok first thing is first hi , secondly - im bi sexual to and I dont have the guts to tell quiet a lot of people, so I understand a little where your coming from. I would sit her down and say something like , I feel that I need to tell you this because if I dont then it might cost both of our happiness, tell her you love her but you have started having strong feeling for another person , then she will prob say - what do you mean , then you go from there you tell her that you ave started having feelings for guy !! and I think it should come naturally ,but I think that when you do tell her , you shouldnt expect her to be fine and dandy , because your basically breaking up with her,telling her you like another person , your bi , and the other person you like is infact a guy , so thats going to be a little much to take in , but she will com round , give her space , just let her know that you still want to be friends with her ! hope I helped , , , let me know how it goes !! goodluck x

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