How do I stop myself from masturbating in public?

Just say no bro.

I have read a number of your posts today kaitlynrocks and for you specifically, I would guess that your overactive sex drive is partially due to all the hormones you have been flooded with in the last 7 months as well as your abuse history might also be adding to this. Usually I would never tell anyone not to masturbate, or to do it less…but since it is causing distress now, I do consider it to be a problem.

Maybe what you are doing though is for a purpose, it is possible that you are maybe reclaiming your body…

For me at least, usually masturbating (if I orgasm or not) will remove my desire to masturbate or have sex. Unless I intend to have an orgasm and get interrupted because people come home or because I just can’t relax enough. Or sometimes I have invasive thoughts which really ruin my mood. (I have the opposite problem lol, I can ruin my own mood).

If the need to masturbate is driving you totally nuts I would suggest going to the bathroom and taking care of yourself quick. I squeeze my legs together while sitting like during a movie or something if the need totally strikes me…which isn’t often.

I seem to remember you don’t like talking to your dr., I hope that is you. Well I know it sucks, but you are having a whole mess of issues and I know myself enough to see similar patterns in others. Some of the problems you are having are created by trying to cope with another problem. Or at least they are sure made worse by it.

I think that you need to above all else, get a support network of medical people and your friends (and possibly family). Then once you have people to help you, start trying to work through your abuse like I am now. I tried to work through it before with just a councler and I tried to kill myself because I couldn’t deal with everything being so easly accessable and at the surface of my mind rather than quieted to a dull murmer except when I am asleep (then it is Super-Nightmare-Unhappy-Abuse-Time).

But if you have a dr to help you as well as a councler, you will be able to get meds to help you cope with the therapy you need.

Feel free to private message me kaitlynrocks if you need some advice or just need someone who will listen to your problems. I see a lot of me in you and that scares me.