How do I (sexually) desensitize myself?

You’re having fun with your girlfriend, you’re not taking a trip to the dentist. There’s no need to numb any part of your body. The point of recieving pleasure is to feel pleasure, after all!

Instead; If you feel yourself getting to the point of ejaculation, slow things down for a few minutes by switching to a nice no-hands make out session.

Keep in mind that our goal here isn’t to bore yourselve to sleep, it’s to allow your over eager self to cool down while, actually, making her eager than ever before. Start off slow then gradually kiss her more intensley. Change speeds every now and then to keep things interesting.

Kissing and gently nibbling on her neck and ear lobes can make her wiggle with anticipation for the next time she gets touched. * If a physical break isn’t quite cutting it, try taking a brief mental break.

Though it may seem rude to take your attention off of your girlfriend while you two are “going at it”, if you don’t, you may not be going at it for very much longer any how.

When you feel the urge coming (no pun intended), quickly take your mind off of the pleasure you’re recieving and redirect it to a more conservative thought.

DO NOT think back to the time when you witnessed your grandpa swimming at the public pool in a speedo, or the time you accidentally back out of the drive way onto a neighbors dog… for memories like these often tend to cause a flaccid penis.

You’re just trying to delay your climax, not lose your errection completely.

Try it out and have fun! ;]