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How do I relate to my little brother?

Well.. I am 21 years old, and I live on my own in another state! I miss my family at times, but I love it here.. anyway.. I have an older sister, younger sister and younger brother.. the girls I can figure out ways to get along with, but my little brother is a different story.. I dont know what to say to him to even start conversation!!! He is 14 years old, he goes dirt bike riding, biking, just crazy things that I cant relate to.. is there anyway I can communicate with him, and not sound like a parent! I was thinking maybe taking him to the boardwalk or somehitng and doing go carts, but I don’t know if he would even like that!! Mybe someone can help me find sometihng to talk to him about, or do with him! I guess I am not use to boys.. haha.. help!!

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Answer #1

try not to talk to him like an perent but a friend try and find out what he is into and look up things about it hope I helped xhannah x

Answer #2

just ask him if he wants to spend some quality time with his big bro. ask him what he wants to do tell him its his choice. I have little sisters and only one I can relate to. the other one is a snot and is hard to comply with. but she told me that she wants to go see a movie with me the other day. its important to keep close to your family. they are the only family ull have.

Answer #3

the answer to your question is a question lmao

and what I mean byu this is every one is different so ic ant tel you what to do with him the best way to figure it out is by asking him what he likes to do

now I know you say this might not answer your question because you rather know what to say to him and to be honest the answer is nothing but do you want to go plzy lazer tag or go carts? simple or ask him what he likes and tell him when ever he has time “even though hes only 14” to call you or when eva your visiting you will make plans

for guys its not about talking and feelings to bond its best just to do the things he likes thats how guys bond

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