How do I prove to my friends that I'm not a slut?

Okay so I just broke up with my boyfriend, and 4 guys already asked me out and I like all 4 of them and I have nooo idea why they chose to start liking me now… and my friends complain that theyre ugly and I get all the boys and they always tell me their only going out to me to bang me and I’m starting to think my friends are thinking me of the slut of the school which I am not!!! so I told my friends I’m gonna give each of them a chance then they just kept looking at me like I was just another preppy bitch at our school!!!omg I need help fml…

Answer #1

hey, if you didn’t really want peoples opinions you shouldn’t have posted on here. we’re trying to give you advice, and it seems like you don’t want to hear any of it. if you already know what you want to do then just do it.

Answer #2

Don’t listen to anybody else…your a cute outgoing girl that obviously is very appealing to all types of guys…why is that your fault? They are honestly just jealous, you don’t try to be center of attention you just are! I was the same way like I have said many times answering questions, I lost a lot of friends for various reasons involving boys (never dated and slept with a friends ex, boyfriend or crush) they just thought I always had guys doing whatever I wanted, but it wasn’t on purpose. When you got it you got it…not every girl has the power to be naturally beautiful and intriguing. If you are going to date all of them, make sure they know you are not exclusive and that you have other people in mind as well, if you sleep with all four that may be a little slutty, so try not to sleep with anyone until they are you committed boyfriend. Good luck and you go girl!!

Answer #3

I agree with tolove. you’re gonna look like a slut if you just go ahead and date all of those guys just to ‘test them out’. just be friends first. no one can be mad at you for having more than one friend :P and you learn so much more about the guy if you just talk to them first as a friend. if you’re dating they have more to lose.

Answer #4

not really, your just horny, yah just wait. you are a slut if you date each one… thats bullshit, and in the process they’ll realize what your doing , and then they’ll all jusst hate u, well unless there getting fucked, then they wont care. buuut then your just a slut, and you dont wanna b that.

Answer #5

BamBam- you don’t have to explain yourself to any of these girls on here. Do what you want, and I think you have a plan for how you are going to manage this without coming off slutty, so don’t worry about it. Most of these girls just don’t know what they are talking about seriously…they have probably never had more than one guy at their feet for their benefit. :)

Answer #6
  • Welps , Don’t do that . I can see why they think that . If your gonna date all of them , to see which you like the most .. NO . Just talk to them and get to know them without going out with them .. I mean if you go out with any of them already after you just broke up with your boyfriend that tells you something .. Not to be mean but , yah . But , if they were true friends they would talk to you and stuff .. instead of thinking that of you . So , it’s bad in both sides .. But , you should make the first move . DON’T DATE ALL OF THEM JUST TALK TO THEM . Then if there’s one you like .. Wait a month and date him .
Answer #7

I dont want to hear it but its what I need

Answer #8

But I’m not going to sleep with any of them I just one to see which one I like the most

Answer #9

This is differnt though.. I think

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