How do I know if I love my girlfriend?

I really like my girlfriend but I dont know if I actually love her, we never argue or fight and we agree on like everythin. we have been going out for like 2 1/2 months. please help me :(

doiloveher age 14

Answer #1

I’m not sure if anyone can answer this question for you, this is a very personal matter. Two months may feel like a long time now, but trust me, time is VERY relevant.

Are there other people you look at and wonder what it would be like to date them?

What is it like when you kiss? Fireworks? Butterflies?

How does her happiness weigh against yours? Would you do anything to make her happy? Even at your own loss?

And most importantly, think about this, in all the possibilities in all the world and ever circumstance, can you honestly say you are happier with her than you could ever be with anyone, ANYONE.

If so, you love her and it’s okay to tell her, just don’t creep her out or anything, lol.

You’d also want to weigh what she would think into this. What do you think she would say? Does she love you back? Would she think it’s too soon?

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