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How do I keep my boyfriend at bay?

My boyfriend told me the other night that we wants to go farther with me. I’m not ready for that. How do I tell him that I want to wait? And if he doesn’t want to wait and does things with somone else what do I do?

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Answer #1

Troublesome…

Your boyfriend doesn’t seem to want to respect your boundaries. This can be a start to working on your communication aspects and trust aspects of your relationship. If he really loves you then he would wait till your ready to do anything at all with you. Its a matter of respecting your choice. Remember, these types of conversations have to be open, calm and relaxed. He has to listen and understand what your trying to tell him and if he says something then you should do the same thing equally. Then its not just about having a chat about the problems, its about taking actions with the problems as well. Don’t be fooled when he seems calmed and taking everything in appropriately. He has to actually prove that he is taking into consideration your wants and needs.

If he does go off and ends up doing something with another girl. That enough should tell you to brake up with him. If he really does do that then its suggest to me that he simply wanted to use you for sex and since he couldn’t get that out of you he simply gets it out of someone else. Sorry for being blunt with my thoughts but thats just how I see it.

I hope this helps.

Answer #2

well if a woman says no that guy if hecares about you he should repect your standards if you give in he will. Expect it all the time if he’s gonna cheat he will even if you give in so stick to guns and if he can’t repect that he didn’t care to begin with and then fine someone that will honor you for repecting yourself hope this input helps you lousie cause I’m one I didn’t give in that and I’m older wiser that what use wo an know I hope this help you with your question just keep sayin no cause really he should repect your feelings lousie

Answer #3

maybe this may help and I really want to be helpful, just tell him you are not ready for that yet, and if he cheats , don’t blame it on yourself for something that he may do. hope this helps…lousie

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