How do I get this girl to go out on second date with me?

Hello all, So I met this girl online and we went on a date a few days ago.We ended up talking for about 4 hours about some pretty random stuff, but we didn’t quite hit it off but I did enjoy her company.Kinda reminded me of myself,except as a woman and a lot prettier. Anyways, so she mails me today with “Hi, I just wanted to say (sort of belatedly, I guess) thanks for the cider and I had a good time talking with you. 4 hours with only like 2 awkward silences is pretty impressive!” I don’t want to look desperate and look like I’m latching on to her despite our date not being like the greatest thing in existence. Any helpful advice?

Answer #1

You’re worrying too much. She’s waiting for you to make the next move… and also, don’t sweat it that the first date was awkward. You’re strangers! How can sparks fly in a Tim Hortons? lol.

So write back to her right now, and ask her what her favourite way to spend a Saturday is – then make it happen :)

Answer #2

just tell her you had fun that day. and well just ask her if she’d like to go out again sumtime.

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