How do I get out of the friend zone?

I have a guy friend who I’ve grown very close to in the past several months. I think in the beginning he might have been interested in me, but I might have made myself too available and he backed off. I did the same and focused on just getting to know him as a friend.

Now we are the kind of friends who knows what the other is going to say before they even say it. We can talk about everything and laugh all the time. We even mirror behavior. In spite of all that, he hasn’t made a move and now I’m wondering if we are stuck in the friend zone. I feel like something is holding him back. Something he is not sure of.

He’s met a couple of my friends but not many, but I think he wants to because he has suggested things where he could meet them. Not trying to keep them away, just hasn’t happened yet. Working to change that, but I am wondering what else can I do to show my interest? Afraid of being too direct after he backed off the first time.

Answer #1

just ask, hey what do u consider me as? if he says a good friend or friend just ask would u consider me anymore than that? if he says yes than u say well lets try becuz id like that to. if he said no than just say well i was just wanting to no how u felt. hope this helped!

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