How do I get him to tell me the truth?

okk ok porn stars are not you they are just a hot looking body but you r a hot looking body with a personality that he loves ok , dont think too much of him watching porn hes a man they have needs and you got to understand that in no way would he love you less because he watches porn ok

THE REALLY PROBLEM IS NOT THAT HE WOULD LIKE PORN OR SEX,

its that we made our own, if he wants to see something he should watch ours, all I want is for him to just come out with the truth! just to tell me that he did, and about the first comment , I didn’t put in my story is that one day when I when down the street to pick up food I walked in the door and it was on and he clicked out super fast like a kid who wasn’t allowed on the computer or something, all I want is the truth

I want him to tell me the truth

Why is it such a big deal? It really isn’t. Just because men watch porn doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong with you.

Maybe you should sit down with him and calmly talk to him about what it is that bothers you about porn and see where it goes from there.

This isn’t an issue that needs to escalate to married couples not sleeping in the same bed together anymore.

And please, don’t listen to the person above me. They REALLY have something wrong with them.

“All men are pigs”? “Have a tape recorder”? And you need to tell your significant other to look away when something comes on TV? That’s just bad.

wow,this happened to me in the beggining. I saw his youtube history and there was girls stripping. I asked him and he said it wasnt him. guys like this never stop.they think there is nothing wrong with it. the truth is if he loves you he should not want to see anyone else,he should only have eyes for you. tell him have fun with the girls from youtube and leave him. or if you still want the truth you can threaten hin by telling him that.

Ok. I am so tired of hearing women say -“what is wrong with men..why do they love watching porn,they are pigs, all they think about sex”… LADIES lets please keep it real… WOMEN DO WATCH and Enjoy porn just as much as men do. It is sad in this day and age that women are not comfortable enough with their sexuality to admit this, and to have more of an open mind towards things. Many women secretly watch porn, have vibrators, and have a sexual interest in many things but feel restricted to express this as a woman. GET OVER IT! Claim your sexuality and make it yours. anyway, now that I sound like a women’s right activist, let me say, I understand where you are coming from. its not the fact that he is watching porn, it is the fact that he is being sneaky and lieing about it. I assume this is because he does not feel comfortable enough around you to be honest, as he knows the drama it would cause. I would say, let your man know that his honesty would save more anger than finding out about his activity after the fact. AND… I would recommend that you watch porn with him for fun one time… men are like children - if you dont make something to be a big deal, they wont either. part of the rush is doing something they know is taboo… and I like the answer another gave of making a video and leaving it carelessly out for him to stumble apon. I would rather my man watch porn then cheat on me, and it is something that can involve both of you - watchin it together can be a turn on! Keep your man guessing by keeping things hott!! Good luck

okay yes I understand what your saying, you made a deal with eachother not to watch? plus you made one together and thats something he really should be watching if watching any at all, :)

I understand what your saying, its not just the fact that hes a pig, but THAT HE LIE’D ABOUT IT!!!?

okay I got you, tell him that your sick of fighting, you want him to tell you the truth, and he knows you know I believe he isn’t telling you cause he promised you and now he broke that promise to the one person he loves most in the world, but also if he loves you he needs to tell you, no matter how much it may hurt both of you, cause its about being truthful with each other, LIES AND MIRE LIES JUST BECOME EVEN MORE LIES

make a sexxy video of your self and leave it untitles or put something like dancers on it, butif you don’t let things like that in your house just leave it in the player, and have it set to watch for when he turns on the tv, do something out there, something that will make him thing, boy was I dumb my girl is way better