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First off to lose confusion I work in a restaurant. There is this guy that comes into my work recently that I just think is really cute and nice. We used to go to high school together but hardly ever talked. But now that he comes in we actually have conversations. He is also good friends with one of my coworkers but she has a tendency to be more flirty and she has a boyfriend. I don’t want to have to fight for his attention even if they are just friends. I am not that kind of girl, plus I don’t want her to get any clues that I like him because she has a big mouth and would tell him really embarrassing me. Be even worse that if he didn’t have the same feelings and then he would never come back. I am really shy at first so it is hard for me to make any kind of first move. I want to play this cool but not eager. does any body have any tips for me? I really need help with this one even though it has probably been said a zillion times. Oh also is there any signs that he might have an interest in me?
Since your co worker already has a b/f that takes away the hands off sign for you. Don't be a flirt tho. Flirting is implying that something is available that will be taken away later. Let him be attracted to the real you, let the play stuff for the movies. OK? good luck
