I was close friends with a girl. We both played the same MMO Ragnarok Online, and we were playing that together, on the same private server, until around 2-3 months ago.
Then I started going all lovey-dovey over her, and started making her feel uncomfortable around me because I would go emo over everything she said. She finally told me it's best if we were just friends.
I was afraid that she would not play RO anymore. I was right - and my worst fear was confirmed. She now wants to play WoW. As friends before all this drama started, we had shared our good times all over RO, and were esentially the dream team. She wants to forget all of that and play WoW. I would have followed her except 1) I didn't want to have the title of "stalker" added to the list, 2) She chose WoW Retail, and had her mom pay for her, my parents don't even know I play games so I'm dead there and 3) I just didn't want to if I was just playing WoW to be with her.
Now, as a friend, I want to know if there is anything I can do to get her off WoW. She has already completely forgotten about Ragnarok Online, doesn't talk to me anymore on chat unless I talk to her first, and rarely in IRL.
Despite the fact she pretty much ditched me, I still care for her. And she has terrible grades, and on top of that, she saw fit to forget about everything. I just want her to get off WoW - anyone have suggestions in general for getting people off WoW?
Yeah, that's what I really have trouble over - getting over her. I don't want her to feel sorry for me, and I'm not the type of guy to threaten girls - in fact, she liked me in the first place because I was the kind of guy who agreed with everything, so I can think of this as simply she realized that she was using me, and didn't want it to continue. I guess I went overboard trying to get her to like me that it became in the obsessive category,
That aside, I want to be able to turn my back on this, but I don't want to lose her as a friend. Yet, WoW gets in the way - she doesn't chat with me (I iz on wow) and has her in its clutch. Nothing bad about WoW, but once people get addicted to it, you really don't know them anymore. And on top of that, I can't talk to her without feeling awkward anymore. I hate that feeling.
Thanks for the advice, anyhow- and it certainly is a life experience for me.
You cant control her or her actions,,but you can
control yourself ---get over her Like if she doesnt want to talk to you no matter what you do she wont talk to you,, dont threat her like most guys do to girls saying their going to do something that she'll regret...honestly would you have someone who has to be with you because she feels sorry for you or because she really wants to??? and you did what you did oh well... just take it as a life lesson and dont do it again!!!