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No guy has liked me since the fifth grade (and that does not count haha) and I'm extremely confused. I don't know if I'm just unattractive or I say the wrong stuff, but it would be nice to feel appreciated and also maybe date somebody(?) Anyways, I was wondering if anyone could give me some tips on how to attract guys. Thanks!
Okay I checked out your photos (for the purpose of answering your question) and you are not unattractive, in fact you're cute as a button, so that is not the issue. I suspect what the problem may be is that you may be worrying about having a boyfriend too much. Focus instead on yourself, getting good grades, developing and nurturing your friendships, engaging in activites you enjoy, and just being yourself, this will make your personality shine. Most guys your age cannot appreciate girls in meaningful ways anyway, you dont just want a boyfriend you want a guy who can love, appreciate and respect you both as a best friend, lover, and most of all a woman. If you want to meet guys that will fit with you then join some clubs or activites that interest you maybe there is fellow there that will peak your interest, step one will already be taken care of, you will have something in common and an easy way to break the ice and begin a conversation.
Good luck sweetheart, have fun, love yourself most of all ;)
thanks a lot for answering! very helpful :)
