How do I extend my vocabulary when chatting?

I have a serious issue that I’ve never noticed before in my life, when casually talking to my boyfriend I have a severely limited vocabulary (consists mainly of Yeah’s, Mmh’s, Okay’s, Really’s, things like that). Well the other day my boyfriend pointed out to me that it’s all I ever really say apart from a comment or two.

I’m just used to not talking (since in school I could never get a word in in class edgewise) and I guess I am especially unexperienced in how to ‘plump up’ my responses to things. I know in my head that there can be plenty more added to a Yes answer but it just never comes out.

Also I found out I’m way to quiet. Again this is most likely just a habit now. The problem is that I don’t think of a comment being necessary when watching television or at a game or even starting a conversation (and carrying it out).

So if anyone has any helpful tips on this could you please give me a little nudge in the right direction.

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Answer #1

make sure you point out interesting thing in between the conversation and immediately, politely interrupt him and ask questions. Guys like when girls pay attention towards their conversation, esp when they are explaining something to girls. And moreover if you are asking question in between, based on the same topic, then it works great with it! I am sure he will respect you even more!

Answer #2

Next time your in a conversation, when you can put an imput or express a thought, do it. When you have something to say, say it. Don’t hold back =] When you need to carry out a conversation, start by listening. Listen to everything the person says, and when you can say something back, say it, and when you can’t, ask questions!

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