how do I deal with this crisis with jamie?

she’s my girlfriend she’s bipolar and different but I love her to pieses now she on her period and she’s getting surgery on sunday tommarow and could die im sad and distressed and is going to be in pain like a week and doesn’t want to be bothered unless she calls me and her fukin ex michael is bothering her hovering behind her like what do you want the kiss of death? and is calling her fat I have a backup plan to find another girlfriend if something bad happens but im still upset and feel like commiting treason or something if anything happens to her like her in the er I want to be by her side the whole time but can’t what should I do bout it? why am I being irrational? goddamit!!! it’s not fuc*ing fair!!!

Answer #1

Just because somebody is getting surgery, doesn’ mean they will die and the likliness now days are very slim.

Answer #2

Stop trying to deal with every issue all at once.

What’s most important right now? Her surgery tomorrow?

Obviously, you can’t be by her side when she has the surgery, but you can be there for her while she’s recovering…and she will recover, so try not to stress out too much about that.

All the other things you can deal with later.

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