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Hey guys...crazy question but lately my boyfriend seems to be playing games with me. Il msg him wheni know hes not busy and he'll take forever to reply (he usually replies right away)...he just keeps playing all these cat and mouse games to see how far im willing to go for him. So what I really need is some advice from evryone on how to beat him at his own game?? I dont want to ignore him or anything I just want to drive him crazy because 2 can play that game!!!
He's playing you ...he's trying to get you to always have him on your mind. asking questions like 'why is he not texting me?' what is he doing'? etcetc..so he knows that you are thinking about him. Play him at his own game by not text back straight away too...dont answer all of his calls all the time...talk about other men who are really hot and get him jealous...show him that he is not center of your life and he is not garenteed a place in your diary..in other words dont need him as much as he needs you. you have to be in control.
Basically you have to show him that him not text back doesn't bother you or don't get back to him for ages and show him you have a life which does not involve him. you will be a challenge for him and keep him on his toes. otherwise he will get bored.
play back play back !!
He may be 22, but he sounds very immature, & insecure. Why stoop to his level? I think that a guy who has to play mind games, isnt someone who knows how to have a healthy relationship. Hes not taking your feelings into consideration, so why would you turn it around, unless you are heartless as well? Two wrongs DONT make it right. I suggest you have serious talk, because you shouldnt have to prove anything to someone you love!!
oh girl I no how you feel my boyfriend does the same dang thing and it drives me nuts too what you do is wait for him to txt you and then do the same thing or you could find something that really annoys him and then do it until he is practically beggin you to stop
well when my ex did that I would do the same thing. wait for every to text back or not text back at alll..make him think why you aint texting back.dont answers his calls right away..do what he do..
