How do I ask my mum about a bra?

I am 13 but I have pretty large boobs and I only wear these wierd ‘crop tops’ but I really want to get a bra. I’ve been reading the other awnsers for ‘How I I ask my mum to get me a bra?’ but I want to try and do it more Subtlety and I can think of anything to do!!! Please please help me!!! :(

Answer #1

I had the same problem it was very embarassing I got my first bra at 13 and I started to develope at around 10 I also used to wear like crop tops underneath my clothes then one day I just got sick of it and knew I needed a bra so when we were in the shops looking at clothes I was just looking at the bit where they sell the bras and walking like next to it hoping shed get the hint that I need one. luckily she didnt and she suggested the size I wud be and stuff

or if that sounds hard then do you have like an older sister or a friend or a cousin who wears bras and maybe go shopping with them if its easier for you to tell them?

Answer #2

There’s nothing to be shy about every girl has to wear a bra some time in their life it’s going to happen sooner or later. If you’re at a store just hold one up and be like mom I think I need this and she’ll get the hint.

Answer #3

my mom just kind of took me one day to get one out of the blue but just say hey mom I need a bra because I think its time for me to get one.

Answer #4

Well asking for a bra is not a crime, just say to your mom you want a bra, or if thats hard for you, hint to her that you need one, or ask another relative that can get you some.

If that doesn’t work, try just talking about bras till your mom gets the idea.

Answer #5

I was really shy but I needed a bra besides a sports bra when I was younger. so, I just wrote a list of things I needed form the store and gave it to my mom. Like: deoderant pads gum make-up toothpaste and then I just added in there cup bra

lol. she took me shopping the next day. you can also go to JcPenny’s and they can measure you over your clothes. they do it in the dressing room. it’s not bad.

every girl has to wear a bra. so, don’t be too shy about it. I mean, your mother wears one, she knows you do. it’s just a girl thing(:

Answer #6

MUM , I NEED A BRA…PLEASE :)

Answer #7

well I am 12 and I need one 2 but my mom doesnt want me to but I keep asking!

Answer #8

I know that its embarrasing to tell your mom that you need a bra but, I agree with everyone that answered this question. Just tell her when you guys go shopping. You’ll want to get the kind that’ll have padding and straps. Now, I have the kind that have the straps and have somewhat of wiring but the wiring doesn’t bother me. Your growing and every girl needs a bra. But, since your starting, your size would probably need to be in the young girls or young miss. Now, I wear young miss sizes. I wear a 34 a I think. So, its nothing to be ashamed of just tell your mom. Eventually you’ll need to tell her.

Answer #9

Well asking for a bra is not a big deal. Your mother probably went through the same thing you did with HER mother. So just go for it. I mean what’s she going to do, yell?

Answer #10

ahem repeat as follows “mamie you know you love me? would you do anything for me?” then ask the question…works for most things…except a car

Answer #11

just ask her…its that simple…its something you need and your mum should be fine with that.

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