How do guys respond to fat girls?

ok I admit im a big girl and usually I dont really mind but when ever it comes to boys its an issue. guys show that they like me but when I want things to get physical im always scared. im afraid that im to big “down there” so how do boys really respond to us girls with meat on their bones!?

Answer #1

I don’t think it really matters as long as they like you for whats inside and not just for whats outside…and I do agree with imunderurbed. I mean I am not skinny really but I think I could lose some but I don’t want to be skinny mini!…maybe 2lbs and that’s it.

Answer #2

Real boys shouldn’t care what size you are, only your personality; if they judge you by your size, they’re not nice guys. Some boys like big girls, better for cuddles? If you don’t like you weight then do a few sports clubs and try to cut out on the junk food a bit. :D

Answer #3

I’m a really big girl too. And no it doesn’t matter cause I dated this one guy who was really skinny and loved me to death which was odd cause I never thought I would ever date. For me I try to not think about my weight and just try to be outgoing and be myself. Now I’m not positive but if you want to get a guy to like you, you just have to let them get to know you firsts and then see if they like you. Love is’t looks ( except for some people ) love is getting closer to someones heart and letting them know your there for them and that your also there friend and lover at the se time .. Just stay true to your self girl and you get pass anything :)

Answer #4

I think that big girls are beautiful because I happen to be one. =] And I mean seriously we need love to, lol. I know that sounds funny but its true, We dont have a weight problem, people just got a problem with our weight. Dont let anyone tell you that you arent beautiful because of your size, just smile and move on. They want you to feel like your worthless but if your strong enough you will realize that you are perfect. =] Hope this helped

Answer #5

I don’t speak for all men, but I know for one that a girl with some meat is something I like :)

You see the reason that most guys don’t have it as a preference is because your body is out of proportion. A girl with a proportional body is usually the type of girls that guys go for.

Its also depending on the guy, not all men have the same tastes in things, similar yes, but the same; never.

Also if the guy genuinely likes you, he most likely doesn’t really care whether your big or not he will like you just the same if not more.

Answer #6

What we men don’t like are the morbidly obese women or the ones that are just skins and bones. So if you got some meat, nice curves, and a nice big booty then that is awesome and you should be proud of that and flaunt it.

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