How come guys don't ask me out?

I’m going with the person who pointed out a lack of confidence. You dont like yourself very much. Why else would you allow people to use you, or say you’re not pretty? Maybe if you started to like yourself a little bit, guys might decide to approach you.

I said I’m approachable because people USE me. As in, ask me for something, then ignore me. And nearly everyone does it, so I’m pretty sure I’m approachable.

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guys make my life hell. no reltionship on this age wil last so it is poitnless to have one now…in the end someones heart will b broken. I perfer not having a relationship!! STAY AWAY FROM RELAIONSHIPS lol… IT IS AWSOME THEY AREN’T ASKING YOU OUT!!! that means you dont have to deal with relationship drama

Why is that surprising that this is asked? People pretty much use me all day long. So, I’m definitely approachable.

“hey niaa, can I have some gum”

ALL DAY LONG.

People don’t ask you out because you obviously don’t have confidence in yourself. You are pretty, I have said so not once but twice. Perhaps you have some sort of rep you don’t know about? Seriously. Maybe you’re seen to people as being unapproachable. I am surprised this was asked.

I’m pretty much all of that. I dunno about funny. People tell me that I am though, haha, thanks.

r you nice? funny? fun to b around? generous? put urself out ther?

*if you answered no to these questions,that is y. p.s.-u are not ugly

well as some other people mentioned it being approachable is a good start but just becasue you think you are doesnt mean that some guys might be a bit shy or just intimidated also its not like you just have to sit around ansd wait for a guy to ask you out you shoudnt just expect them to do everything you should be getting out there and asking people out as well dont leave it up to the guy most of them like girls asking them anyway, instead of the other way around

I know how you feel because I use to think the same thing from since I moved here in the US in 8th grade till now and im in da 11th. recently I got asked out. you gotta wait for da rite one don’t rush it in time it will come. you problly sayin I’ve waited long enough…but somethings in life are worth waitin for. and you WILL find Mr. Right guy for u just b a lil more patient

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It’s sad huh. :/

That’s true Ashlyn.

Obviously, I can tell you don’t like me much. But, I don’t know why.

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Uhm, obviously I’m none of those things. WTF?

niaa, I personally think you are focusing on the wrong question. Why are you not asking guys out? Most of the time guys can be intimidated to some degree. If your looking at work, you won’t find a guy. It’s just my experience that sexual harrassment policies have become so strict, many guys don’t think it’s worth the risk. If I were you, I would start going to church (if your one of those types) or find a regular past time and let it happen. If you think about these things too often you can set your up for failure, or worse psych yourself out. Take a breath and find someone who you care about.. not how MANY ask you to care about them.. Enjoy life with what you have, not what you wish for.