How Can You Know If You Have To Have Sex To Know If Your Gay.??

I think gayness can be developed - if you have sex then it’s just going to fuel that development.

Don’t decide it on a whim and don’t label yourself when you are unsure. And I do not think having sex will help - it will only develop you more in that direction. Which direction do you want to go? If you decide not to go there, you are free to too. Not everyone is born that way and you don’t have to be.

I cant hardly understand that question.. seriously.

if you think its disgusting to have sex with the same sex then what exactly are you having trouble with?

I might be gay but sex with a woman disturbs me…

see what im getting at?

If someone says that to you, ask them if they’ve had sex with the opposite sex, and if not, how do they know they’re straight? If they have, did they know before they ever had sex? Might help put it in perspective for people.

I’m a lesbian so I know where you’re coming from. I knew I was a lesbian 2 years before I ever had sex with a girl. If you like girls then that’s pretty much the only requirment ;p Love is what really matters, not sex. Women know what women want =]

so do guys