How Can I tell them?!!!

Ok I believe Im pregnant My fiance and I are glad. ( We are getting married Saturday and Im 18) Well his parents will be easy to tell because they wanted us to have kids a long time ago. But my family on the other hand are a little more critical =/

Can anyone help me and my soon to be husband on telling them. They might be mad (im pretty sure of it even though my mom got pregnant when she was 15)

Tell me how to tell them

or tell me how you told your family

any situation will be ok

I want to hear them all so I can make a decision on how to tell them

many many thanks!

Answer #1

I don’t know bout da whole after honeymoon thing or watever but yea it best to tell em soon before it becomes too late have you and your fiancee talk to em bout it and see how it goes from der if they get mad then let em be but after a while they will accept da fact that your pregnant and that your growin up already

Answer #2

yeah… we arnt having a honeymoon =/ wish we did so much easier to tell and I believe im about 7 weeks so yeah

but thanks tho very much :)

Answer #3

I would tell them after the wedding and when you gt back from the honey moon sit them down and talked to them and say it that way

hope it helps

Answer #4

I’d tell them after the wedding. You don’t have to fill them in on the details, just say you found out after the wedding. If they do get mad, then leave them to sort themselves out and just say something like, “I just wanted you guys to know because your my parents and I love you.” or something. Remember, they can only suggest what you and your soon to be husband can do. The rest is up to you. If you don’t want to be involved with the meanness, then surround yourself with people who you can can trust.

Answer #5

yeah see when I was younger I told all of them I wasnt having kids I hate kids blah blah blah you know… and I do want kids so they are expecting me not to ever have kids =/ and as soon as we have the money we are moving to were they live b/c I have some inherited land…we will be living right next door so to speak… my family can be very …mean I guess and I dont want my child to be in that. I love my family with all my heart. im just scared of them :(

Answer #6

Like I said any situations will be of help

Thanks to all that has repleyed :)

Answer #7

uhhh… why don’t you just tell them a few weeks after the honeymoon?

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