How can I tell if my boyfriend is cheating?

Ok either im just paranoid or my boyfriend is cheating, when is was about 11-12 he cheated on his ex girlfriend 4 times which is probably making me paranoid, just because all my friends know that they are telling me to check his phone and his online sites a social site, tagged, msn etc…

I checked and I couldnt find anything, hes really sweet and kind, treats me better than my ex’s did but is he putting it all on so I believe him?

what shall I do??? x

Answer #1

Think of it this way… if you were suspected by your boyfriend on cheating on him, and you found out by accident that he had been suspecious about you for quite some time, wouldn’t you feel hurted?

So cheer up and relax Don’t look for a proof that might not even be there :) I won’t do you any good the longer or more you seek it out. Your boyfriend may have matured, or he is probably more in love with you than he was in his ex… and don’t listen to what everyone says, it’ll only make your paranoid feeling worse… they are not helping you, only making it more difficult.

Specially don’t think about it if he haven’t done anything that is more suspecious, than being nice to you ;)

Answer #2

If you dont trust him the relationship wont work. Is he sweet enough to straight up ask him? Doubtful. In that case, I would just see where it goes and be cautious.

Answer #3

in short you cant…

if your happy with him dont do or say anything to jeopardize the relationship..

but as youve just proven, you dont trust him so how long do you really think this will last ;)

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