how can I tell him?

just tell him and if he gets mad then he dont realy love you but if hes clame he will undderstand and would wait for u

hope it helps

umm honestly, straight up. there is no other way to do it, if you are not comfortable with being straight up with your boyfriend and knowing he will stand by you no matter when you are or are not ready for sex or even anything, than you two are NOT ready to have sex.

just tell him straight out and honest, tell him your feelings towards it and that you’re flat out not ready for it yet, if he loves you, he should respect your feelings!… but if you’re comfortable with other stuff like oral or hand job… than maybe you could suggest that… but if not, don’t do anything you’re not willing to do! don’t do anything unless you truly want to do it. Don’t let others impact your choice when it comes to something like this! - if he dosen’t understand that… then he’s not worth it!

Next time he brings it up, tell him you aren’t ready. Just say that you won’t make him wait forever, but that you just need some more time. Usually its easier for boys to know that you will eventually than just straight up saying “No.” If he gets mad at you, then he was never worth it to begin with. But if he gets frustrated- try to understand. Because its a lot different for guys than it is for girls, it causes physical pain(blue balls), and its a big thing for some of them too, so just give him time to cool off a bit before you talk to him.