How can I talk to my dad when he walked in on me having sex?

wait… I didn’t post this question… and im only 13. and sry guys… I geuss I clicked the wrong year. but my dad NEVER EVER walked in on me having sex… who posted that???

So I checked and you are 16…

I can tell you this much…your dad knows he has to talk to you, too…and he’s not happy about it. What you saw was an initial reaction, a perfectly normal one at that. Now he’s at work wondering the same thing you are…’what to say’. It’s going to be uncomfortable, no doubt…but the chances are he will bring it up to you. If he doesn’t…ask him if you two can go to lunch, or somewhere where it is private, so you can talk.

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how ru sayin your parents went 2 a party but yet you say your mom died (sorry 2 hear that) so who iz your other parent/and did your father already know you had a boyfriend and if he did,did he trust him?

but my advice is 2 say that you r3ally luv your man and you thought you wer3 at that rite 3nough ag3 2 do that

your sixteen?? your the same age as me and that would just be so terrible!! especially if he didnt already know you were having sex…o my god!!! I have no advice for you though sorry. me and my dad arent that close at all so if that happened to me o my god!!

It would help to know your age.

If you are over 16, then legally you don’t need to worry. If you are under 16, then its time to worry because your dad could make rape accusations against your boyfriend.

Anyway, I think the best thing to do is to tell somebody like the school counsellor (if you go to school) and get them to bring your dad in, and all have a big conversation with the three of you. Having the counsellor will help as your dad won’t be able to shut you out and he will have no choice but to listen to your side.

honey dont worry. every dad will get angry after seeing such a thing but let him steam off a little bit it s maybe not the best idea to sleep somewhere else maybe go home but be in your room even if he wanted to argue dont say anything let him steam off heis your dad, he has been through all this, so he will eentually understand it is an awkward position for him too so give him the right to be mad at you, but dont stay out for the night\

maybe it makes it even worse but dont in contact with him maybe he is still angry… let him cool down and then talk to him wishh you all the besttt

First I hope you are of an age that is sensible for sexual relationships, because if you 13 you shouldnt be having sex!

But if you are over 16 the I would be straight up with your dad and say ‘ I know what happened was hard for both of us. I hope that you know that I am sensible and that I was fine.’ This is a situation that know one wants to happen but remember it is natural. Let your Dad know that you are sexual active and ask him how he feels about this. If he wants you to be safe at home or shacked up in the back of a car. Does he want you to confide in him or keep that seperate? Put it on him to tell you what he is comfortable with or not. Good luck.

wow and how old are you? will if that happened too me I dont know what I would of done. will maybe like cook for him or somthing then have a talk afterwards and tell him that you know what you did was wrong and that he is going to have to like get over it sooner or later and that you are realy realy sorry for waht you did. Or clean the house and tell him… or write him a letter if you dont want too talk to him.. hope this helps.. :) p.s sorry about your mom :(

Was u moaning? Lmao