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how can I over come this fear of mine???

I really want to “do it” with my boyfriend, but im scared to, I want to though and he wants to do it too but im kind of scared, what can I do to over come this fear??

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Answer #1

I dont think you are ready either, you seem too scared. you should NEVER force yourself, when you are ready you will know. I’m not trying to scare you more but it will hurt a lot and your gonna bleed a lot! you want to make sure you are with someone who will be understanding of that and who loves you. sex is a wonderful experience but you have to be ready! also its a huge responsibility and you need to be sure to talk to your doctor about birth control. I know its embarrassing to go to the doctor, but its much easier than dealing with an unplanned pregnancy

good luck

Answer #2

Sex is serious business! It is something you should NEVER force yourself into doing when you clearly are NOT ready!

Answer #3

I read somewhere u know when your rady to have sex when you dont have any questions. If you are still asking yourself ‘what ifs’ and other questions, then your maybe not rady, but if want to and u know u are sure that HES the one then go for it, but like marie ^ said dont forse yourself to do something u know ur body wants to but ur mind dosent.

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