How can I make the lies stop?

Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and people lie and stuff like telling him im going to break up with him, so he cries so of corse I cheer him up:) but now people are saying that im p!ssed off at him. And im not. So how can I get the people to stop starts problems?

Answer #1

The only information I know about your boyfriend is the information that you provided, so the only conclusions I can draw is based on the evidence you chose to share. Crying over unfounded rumors is not indicative of someone with a strong backbone or sense of self. If there is a mountain of evidence against it, fine, but you didn’t bother to inform us of any of it, so if I don’t know ‘sh!t’ about it, the blame is yours, not mine. I was merely offering an opinion, which you had asked for.

As another piece of friendly advice: You will not last long on this site if you cop an attitude every time someone tries to help you.

Answer #2

rumors have been around since the velociraptor claimed he was hung more than the t-rex…

what I mean is its been around for donkeys and will continue to be 10000000000000000s of years after our life times

you need to, and in a pleasent way, tell people to STFU and mind their own buisness and get a life of their own and stop causing trouble in other peoples

Answer #3

What would I do? Here’s how the conversation would play out.

‘’Dude, she’s going to break up with you.’’

‘’You’re telling me that my girlfriend said the words to you ‘I’m going to break up with him’?’’

‘’Well, no, but I heard–‘’

‘’Then shut the hell up and stop talking out your butt.’’

His best friend or no, your boyfriend needs to man up a little and stop letting himself get pushed around.

Answer #4

its addecting him cause he really likes me and the person who told him I was going too break up with him is his old best friend, and most of the stuff we do laugh off. we have been talking about this and he said it doesnt affect him that much just the break up one. cause think if you had a boyfriend or a girlfriend and your BEST FRIEND WHO NEVER LIED TO YOU said your boyfriend or girlfriend you are in love with is going to break up with you what would you do?

Answer #5

You can’t make anyone do anything, short of a cage and a cattle prod. What you can do is not let it affect you. If your relationship is strong, it doesn’t make any difference one way or the other what people are saying. This should be something you’re laughing about with your boyfriend, not something that is affecting him to the point of tears. Shift your focus away from what other people are doing and pay more attention to why your boyfriend is so insecure that it’s affecting him in the first place.

Answer #6

thanks. and btw I dont cop an attitude with everyone who gives me advice. only if you try to talk about people like you know them. and he does have a strong backbone or whatever. so drop it!

Answer #7

I would ask him who he heard it from, then the two of you confront the person.

Then they are caught in their lie and look stupid.

xox Sika

Answer #8

btw he is ‘man enough’ you have no room to talk about someone you dont know. mk? so stop hes a great boyfriend and you dont even know him therefore you cant talk about someone you dont know sh!t about

Answer #9

Just tell him that all the lies people are saying, simple as that, as long as you 2 know that all that people say is not true then there should be no problem whit him…

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer #10

sounds like my boyfriend. I just tell him that you would never even do that, maybe have oral to assure to him that you love him

Answer #11

PLEASE… Rylei

just leave that question as is it and not argue :)

please…?

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