How can I make my friends like me more?

ok so my homecoming dance is this weekend. I am the only person in my group of friends going alone. they all have dates. so they are going to go out to eat before, then they all go to the dance, then go somewhere else. I’ve been asking them if I can go too, but they ignore me.

haha thats just an example of stuff that happens. I mean I love my friends soooo much, but they’re all in their own group and often leave me out. I talk to them sometimes (when they choose to listen, or they cant hear me) and they talk to me, but they are constantly going to eachother’s houses and out to eat or somewhere. and then theres periods of time when they dont even see me there, like today I waved at my friend at his locker and he saw me and looked away. then my girlfriends never tell me their little dramas going on, and they enjoy the company more of other people. okay, my friends do hug me and stuff sometimes. but thats sometimes.

what im asking is HOW CAN MY FRIENDS LIKE ME MORE?? everyone’s like “just open up and talk to them. tell a joke. compliment them.” what the f*ck I have nothing to talk about. jokes are for kids. and I have no life except for singing/dancing crap and them. and when I tell them my problems, they say “god your so negative.” “that sucks……..(walks away)” and “there are kids starving around the world and all you care about is yourself.” (but im not selfish at all, im lame haha)

help. what do you guys do? I don’t want to be the person everyone just says “oh she’s nice. or she’s okay.” and not someones best friend. tear lol thanks<3

Answer #1

Your friends don’t sound like friends at all. Talk to new people, make new friends. Real friends like you for who you are. You should be able to talk to friends about everything - including your lack of life - but even more important: real friends will help you with your problems. They will AT LEAST listen, not put you down.

I don’t think you’re being selfish or lame; your current “friends” are the ones being idiots. That’s high school for you.

I rarely say this, but FunMail me if you need someone to talk to.

Answer #2

lol nooo. i’ve known them for 2 years. but one friend just emailed me and said that she’s sorry for leaving me out alot, and she’ll mention it to the others… and i’ll be going with them for that homecoming crap…so it’s all good now. lol

this question was never heeerrreee…

Answer #3

They don’t sound like YOUR friends. They sound more like YOU WANT THEM TO BE your friends.

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