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How can I make more friends?

I’ve changed schools heaps of times and I’ve found a thing in common: I had only one really good friend THAT WAS NOT IN MY CLASS in each school. I sort of know why I don’t have much friends. I’m really quiet. But this other girl in my class is really quiet too and everyone likes her. I try to smile and be nice but it doesn’t work. At lunchtime I kind of follow my current “good friend” and HER friends around (I get along with them well) but I think I’m kind of a drag… The most embarrasing thing was when we have to do this performance and bring 2 friends along that are not performing too and I couldn’t find any and my “good friend” offered to bring two more friends “for me” (she doesn’t know my friendless situation, I told her that my friends were really busy). How can I get more friends of my own???

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Answer #1

well thats how I was to so I can relate ok well I was really shy not many friends but as I got a little older I was a little more outgoing and I got more friends its the summer so when school starts back up try this…

  1. introduce yourself to people
  2. is theres new people that dont know anybody be like are u new, and introduce urself thell be glad they have met someone, plus can tell them about the school
  3. be yourself, dont be crazy outgoing or try to be something your not
  4. smile a lot, like when your talking give big smiles in between, that will show people your friendly
  5. be nice, but not tooo nice, ull get annoying lol
  6. when people introduce themselves to you try to start conversation
  7. oh and the first day try to get to know as many people as you can, cus the second week middle of the school year its wierd introducing your self to people you see everyday
  8. try to look your best at all times, an attaractive kid always draws attention :D
  9. and its ok to have one really good friend, its a best friend, but also have a lot of other friends, they dont all have to be best friends
  10. join sports or clubs, youll become sorta like family lol :d hope this helpes email me if have any questions mandala.kelly@yahoo.com
Answer #2

find some kids around your age in your neighborhood.. if you see them get out of your comfort zone and just say hi.. it might feel weird at the time but it’ll be worth it and you’ll eventually learn to be like that all the time… I used to be really quiet to.. and kind of embaressed to do anything in front of anyone.. but once I got older and matured I’m really outgoing now.. maybe it just takes time.

Answer #3

Just say hey and be yourself! I think if your easy going and fun to be around thats what will attract people, I’ve got lots of friends just by being myself and just enjoying it all, if people see that your havinfg fun and everything they will want to be apart of it to.

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