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How can I help my friend? Her friend says she's a wanna be scene?

Ok so my friend just got into a fight with her old friend who is apparently ‘scene’. Her ex friend keeps telling people my friend is copying her look to be scene and telling my friend she is a poser and a Wanna-be. Tell me what I can do to help?

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Answer #1

Well, do you think she is? You can’t really do anything except be a good friend. If you think she is then a good friend (you) would tell her the truth. She may get mad, but explain to her that you are only telling her to help her not get a bad image. If she wants to be like this, then tell her it is her choice. Let her look bad, if she wants to. If she comes back crying to you because her feelings got hurt because of this image, simply say “I warned you and told you. You insisted on doing it. This is your own fault, not mine. Sorry. I will be nice to you, but there isn’t much I can do to help.” Leave it at that. If she is willing to take the kindness and little help that you can give, then give it to her. If she is a brat about it, that should say something about your friendship right there. If she isn’t anything her ex says she is then tell everyone he is wrong and they can’t know anything unless the really know her. Her old friend is just a jealous person who needs to stop making up nasty gossip, but you can’t stop her. :( . So just try to help your friend by saying to ignore the people who really can’t get off the gossip train. Good luck I hope this helps! If you need more help on this topic, and want to talk Fun Mail me or write on my wall :) , Good Luck!

Answer #2

they should both get over themselves scene is nothing new your scene friend would have obviously copied at least one other scene person when she decided to be “‘scene”‘ the scene style is pretty much the same, theres nothing unque about it now every scene kid looks almost exactly the same and have the exact same hair, clothes, ect going on so there both copying soemone else they should both get over themselves

Answer #3

Nothing. Just tell her to ignore her. She’s just insecure. She probably thinks your friend looks better than her and is jealous.

Answer #4

who cares what anybody thinks. I assume your in HS. trust me no one is going to care if your “scene” in the real world.

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