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How can I get the guts to talk to mr.perfect???

Its the old story of someone being way out ya league lol, theres this guy I realy like but hes perfect and im scared to talk to him because he could literaly have any girl he wanted, hes funny, nice, cute, fit and I ididnt thnik he was interested in me, even tho his mate told me he was, so I invited him over but he said he couldnt come because hes got family stayin (wich is true) but he could make next weekend if I want, so im seein him next weekend but im worried im gona be to nervous to talk to him because whenever I look at him I get butterflys lol and forget what im saying, any tips how to get the confidence to talk to him? and to make me less nervous round him, im so happy im seein him but I think my nerves are gonna wreck it because I dont think im good enough, help?? xxx

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Answer #1

Step one: DON’T CALL HIM PERFECT!

NOBODY is perfect. Thinking otherwise, will only cause intimidation, and later disappointment.

Answer #2

What if you’re wrong? What if you’re the one who’s out of HIS league? lol. Turn it around. Don’t pay tooo much attention to him.. Let him talk to you if you think he’s worth it. Just that simple act of reframing the whole situation will give you heaps more confidence.

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